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Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 03-31-2013, 01:41 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 197
Posted By Jayne311
My greatest desire is to be independent

I don't care much for becoming normal socially, even if it does make life a lot easier. I don't get lonely or anything like that. I just want to be independent. I want a life where I do what I want...
Forum: Frustration 03-17-2013, 12:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 209
Posted By Jayne311
work terrifies me, sick of not making any money

I need a job, but everything sounds far too scary. Even emailing someone about a job is terrifying as I'm almost too afraid to even open emails from someone.

I'm in school for graphic design, but...
Forum: Frustration 03-17-2013, 10:30 AM
Replies: 90
Views: 1,690
Posted By Jayne311
Three, when I started preschool. I wasn't afraid...

Three, when I started preschool. I wasn't afraid of the other kids, I just remember being so angry that I was supposed to spend my day there and make friends with them. I'd say it was more...
Forum: Frustration 12-23-2012, 01:15 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 228
Posted By Jayne311
Don't know how to live in such a social world

I'm trying to get through school and in the meantime maybe get internships to get prepared for looking for a job one day, but it all seems so daunting largely because I feel like the world around me...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 10-03-2012, 01:40 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,342
Posted By Jayne311
I can't know this, but I feel like I would have...

I can't know this, but I feel like I would have less SA if I had an older sister. I'm pretty helpless with learning about the "real world" on my own. I always need to ask someone for help, or I just...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 09-28-2012, 12:58 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 2,058
Posted By Jayne311
I don't want kids, but sometimes I'll think about...

I don't want kids, but sometimes I'll think about it anyway. And I picture taking care of them and raising them in an environment that I want to live in one day and teaching them things I wish I had...
Forum: Frustration 09-07-2012, 11:09 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 823
Posted By Jayne311
Yeah, I think my sister is what's really...

Yeah, I think my sister is what's really bothering me with this. She says I "keep to myself" but it's not as if I don't ever come out of my room. I go to school, go to work, run errands all the time,...
Forum: Frustration 09-06-2012, 01:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 823
Posted By Jayne311
My sister has a friend over right now...

So I leave my room and go to the kitchen. My sister has just gone outside to move her car, so me and this random guy I met ten minutes ago are in the kitchen alone. He starts saying things like,...
Forum: Frustration 08-07-2012, 04:52 PM
Replies: 67
Views: 1,725
Posted By Jayne311
Hell yes it would. Not making enough money is...

Hell yes it would. Not making enough money is worse to me than suffering through SA. It has consumed me over the past few years. I feel incredibly guilty that I don't make enough to support myself...
Forum: Frustration 08-07-2012, 04:24 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 919
Posted By Jayne311
Dogs are a lot of work, and they can be expensive...

Dogs are a lot of work, and they can be expensive too. But my family and I have two dogs, and they're great. I can be myself around them, because they love me no matter what.
Forum: Frustration 08-07-2012, 04:20 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 164
Posted By Jayne311
Mom is stressing me out

She won't accept help from anyone. If she's stressed about something, and I offer to help her, she refuses it. Then she later complains about how stressed she is, and how she needs help.

And she...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 07-26-2012, 01:56 PM
Replies: 84
Views: 2,032
Posted By Jayne311
Being the oldest child in my family. I was always...

Being the oldest child in my family. I was always intelligent as a kid, but I didn't know how to act around people at all, or how to go out into the world rather than stay inside my head. If I'd had...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 07-03-2012, 03:36 PM
Replies: 1,697
Views: 147,227
Posted By Jayne311
Today I was supposed to go to an open house at a...

Today I was supposed to go to an open house at a business for my own work, to hand out cards and talk to people. I know the place well, and I pictured it going okay. But I got there, and it was...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 05-22-2012, 12:50 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 571
Posted By Jayne311
It's a nice concept, but I don't see how to do...

It's a nice concept, but I don't see how to do it.

Between trying to earn as much money as I can to help my family, to not moving out because I help them so much, my life is anything but mine....
Forum: Frustration 03-21-2012, 04:03 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,465
Posted By Jayne311
Thank you all very much for saying such nice...

Thank you all very much for saying such nice things. I will try to take everyone's advice.

I think the hardest part of all of this is that I'm realizing what little control I have over my life,...
Forum: Frustration 03-20-2012, 02:18 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,465
Posted By Jayne311
I'm so unhappy with my life

So many things are wrong. I still have to live with my parents, at age 22, in this small town that keeps me so disconnected from things to do and people my own age. I never left after high school,...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 02-22-2012, 04:01 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 2,768
Posted By Jayne311
I feel like I don't have the energy to keep up...

I feel like I don't have the energy to keep up with things I'm "supposed" to do. Like, I got a driver's license at 16 and my first job not soon after, but that was absolutely all the effort I could...
Forum: Frustration 12-18-2011, 09:00 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 257
Posted By Jayne311
I want a job

I'm so tired of needing my parents to support me. I've been through school, got a job, and I have such little business right now that it's laughable. I'm back in school now, but it'll take years to...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 11-14-2011, 02:19 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 273
Posted By Jayne311
Most of my reactions are completely internal

This is an observation I've made about myself recently. Unless something is really, really funny, I usually react only by thinking or feeling, not by showing anything on my face. I've realized that I...
Forum: Frustration 10-12-2011, 05:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 269
Posted By Jayne311
trapped in a nightmare

I'm sorry to post something so negative, but I need to write this out.

I've recently gone back to school to one day get a career I don't hate. I've barely started, and it costs so much. My...
Forum: Frustration 10-12-2011, 05:00 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 262
Posted By Jayne311
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I am too....

I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I am too. We'll get through things though.
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 10-11-2011, 01:46 PM
Replies: 1,697
Views: 147,227
Posted By Jayne311
Today at school all the snacks I had were...

Today at school all the snacks I had were crunchy. I was afraid of people hearing me eat, so I went to my car to eat them.

Later today I was starving, and I walked past an event at school where...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 10-09-2011, 03:25 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 983
Posted By Jayne311
I don't want friends: I want best friends. The...

I don't want friends: I want best friends. The effort of getting past the awkward getting to know people stage and making friends it what gets to me. I had friends before, and I was actually the...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 10-09-2011, 03:08 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 817
Posted By Jayne311
I act all impatient and important about it, even...

I act all impatient and important about it, even if I'm home alone and no one sees me. Doing that sort of thing helps with a lot, not just using the phone. If I act like making a call is one more...
Forum: Coping With Social Anxiety 10-08-2011, 01:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 163
Posted By Jayne311
Two things that might help

First, recognize any feeling or thought you have as being legitimate. I get angry at myself for being so awkward, or ashamed because of something I did or didn't do. I get annoyed at myself for...
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