I absolutely agree with you. There is nothing you can say to anyone that feels ugly to make them feel better. Calling them attractive is only a temporary fix.
Happy Halloween to you, too, no matter what you're doing.
The most I've ever done on a Halloween was watch scary movies and eat candy with an at-the-time boyfriend, so I'm used to not doing anything special. Tonight I had pizza and won a game of 500 Rummy with exactly 500 points, though, so it's been a nice night. How is/was yours?