Hi! I just read about your experiences at high school. I must be hard for a girl to be socially exculded at school. Boys can be very very cruel and play mind games, just a badly as girls......but girls get particularly nasty and obsess over giving grief. Boys do it for a while, then get sick of it and start on someone else, or they go away and perve at chicks. Girls concentrate their entire energy on grinding this one person down. Their dedication to bullying is far greater!