Social Anxiety Support

VIncymon · 10-28-2009, 05:27 PM

On facebook this girl i met a few weeks ago invited me to come to her church. Anyway, I don't really wanna do that so i just never responded to that message.
Today i met her after work and she personally invited me this time, it started with 'what are you doing on saturday.'

This time i ( like the inexperienced fool i know i am) asked my brother what to do. He said to play along, visiting a church doesn't mean joining it.

Later today on a bus home, this girl randomly asks me my name.. and i asked hers back, at this point, I could see that both she and her friend were watching me expectantly .. so i said to myself, oh what the heck, its not like i actually have a girlfriend to account to ... I played along, continued talking, numbers ..and am now texting her.

Just Lurking · 10-28-2009, 06:31 PM

Sounds like a good day. I agree with your brother: Church or not - go with it!

VIncymon · 10-28-2009, 06:38 PM

Its amazing what happens once you've stopped dressing like a student and start dressing like a working man ...

These sort of things never happened while i was in school and college. Oh well, let me stop there.. i shouldn't complain, i'll just take the pill and see where this goes (reference to the matrix)

Rixy · 10-29-2009, 04:29 AM

That's great. It's amazing what can happen when you try to be friendly and outgoing

marenubium87 · 10-29-2009, 11:52 AM

Wow! Tell me what city you live in that girls are so forward, and I'll move there. :-)

10-28-2009, 05:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
VIncymon Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Gender: Male Posts: 741	Thank god for extroverts of the opposite sex .. On facebook this girl i met a few weeks ago invited me to come to her church. Anyway, I don't really wanna do that so i just never responded to that message. Today i met her after work and she personally invited me this time, it started with 'what are you doing on saturday.' This time i ( like the inexperienced fool i know i am) asked my brother what to do. He said to play along, visiting a church doesn't mean joining it. Later today on a bus home, this girl randomly asks me my name.. and i asked hers back, at this point, I could see that both she and her friend were watching me expectantly .. so i said to myself, oh what the heck, its not like i actually have a girlfriend to account to ... I played along, continued talking, numbers ..and am now texting her.

10-28-2009, 06:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Just Lurking Status: Student.. Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Posts: 2,852	Sounds like a good day. I agree with your brother: Church or not - go with it! __________________ "The psychiatrist says, 'I think you're crazy.' The man says, 'I want a second opinion.' The psychiatrist says, 'Okay, you're ugly, too!'" ~Henny Youngman

10-29-2009, 04:29 AM	#4 (permalink)
Rixy Status: Falling into Guru Muhk Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Gender: Male Age: 17 Posts: 217	That's great. It's amazing what can happen when you try to be friendly and outgoing __________________ Will you say hello to my ma? Will you pay a visit to her? She was an artist just as you were I'd have introduced you to her She would take me out on Sundays We'd go laughing through the garbage She repaired legs like a doctor On the kitchen chairs we sat on She was unhappy just as you were unhappy just as you were unhappy just as you were unhappy just as you were... -Jane's Addiction (Then She Did...)

10-28-2009, 06:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
VIncymon Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Gender: Male Posts: 741	Its amazing what happens once you've stopped dressing like a student and start dressing like a working man ... These sort of things never happened while i was in school and college. Oh well, let me stop there.. i shouldn't complain, i'll just take the pill and see where this goes (reference to the matrix)

10-29-2009, 11:52 AM	#5 (permalink)
marenubium87 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CO Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 79	Wow! Tell me what city you live in that girls are so forward, and I'll move there. :-)