Social Anxiety Support

Sunshine009 · 07-01-2009, 09:32 PM

I'm alive and relatively healthy
I believe in a God who gives us wisdom when we ask for it
I have freewill
I have goals
I have love for others

Annie K · 07-02-2009, 05:03 AM

1. I'm very empathetic, I genuinely care about other people, and I don't hate anyone.
2. I'm peaceful/gentle/not violent.
3. I'm a great cook.
4. My right eye is two different colors, and I think it looks pretty unique and cool.
5. I'm forgiving and never really hold grudges.

Ospi · 07-03-2009, 12:40 AM

1. Genuinely a nice guy (or at least it is what I am told)
2. Easily make friends
3. Passionate about my career path
4. Usually do a good job at whatever I set my mind to
5. Genuinely care about peoples feelings and do what I can to make them feel better or help understand themselves better.

Ununderstood · 07-03-2009, 12:57 AM

Wow this is hard......

1. Maybe my height...but then again im only 6'0"

Wow this sucks, I hate myself...f*** this thread lol.

kos · 07-03-2009, 08:29 AM

1. Indomitable - Just something I was blessed with and something that runs in the family. Coming from nothing, rags to riches, S.A. to alpha male. I refuse to quit until death.

2. Spirited - Yes there are times where i am quite deeply depressed and feel beaten down by life, but most often then not i seem to maintain a cheerful, buoyant view of the world.

3. Courageous - I have so much emotion at times (mostly due to music) that it enables me to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear. This allows me to take extreme risks (which for some reason im attracted to).

4. Warm Hearted - I'm the kind of person that will work hard for a paycheck and give half of it away to someone living on the street just to see how happy it makes them.

5. A Firm Buttox - Thats right a guy can have a nice *** too.

Sunshine009 · 07-03-2009, 09:03 AM

1-health skills
2-work skills
3-money skills
4-creative skills
5-history/law skills

H4hope · 07-03-2009, 09:06 AM

1. I'm artistic
2. People do tend to like me once they see part of me out of my shell
3. I've been told I'm pretty even without make up (haha)
4. Apologizing is not hard for me. I rarely get into fights for I always try to put myself in other ppl's shoes first. If I'm not wrong of course I'll point it out in a calm matter and try to resolve the issue.
5. Mmm....Nothing special but I speak 2 languages (Japanese/English)

You know, this is harder than I thought it would be haha

lastofthekews · 07-03-2009, 03:52 PM

1. I am a kind and caring guy.
2. I will do all I can to help genuine people out, if they require my help.
3. I am a good driver.
4. I am intelligent.
5. I'm a good listener, who can be trusted to keep anything personal between me and the other person.

SAgirl · 07-03-2009, 07:28 PM

1. I care about other people. I'm a great listener.
2. If my family needs help, I'm always available
3. I'm patient and kind-hearted, loyal, honest and trustworthy.
4. Although, I get told by others many negative messages constantly about myself "that I'm an idiot or a loser, I do nothing." I know that what these people are saying is untrue.
5. I love my taste in music.

templar19 · 07-09-2009, 01:35 PM

5 may be a little ambitious. You can post just a few things you like about yourself...or even one thing.

MrFrenz · 07-10-2009, 05:12 AM

I can read and spell very well. At a young age I learned to read and most of the kids in my classes would ask me to read to them and spell things for them. I pride myself on my spelling acumen.

I can make people laugh. I like seeing people smile and have a good time around me because I feed off that energy and it puts me in a better mood. I can be very mopey, but if someone actively tries to help I respond enthusiastically.

I have a great family. They are incredibly supportive, and I know I can go to them with just about anything. Especially my mom. Even people who I barely know who have met her love my mom.

I'm relatively no-nonsense. I could talk to people about the weather, but why bother? I'd rather get to the point and get something done. Some people think this trait is not very useful, but subtlety can only get you so far until you finally have to open your mouth and say what you want.

I'm professional. I don't really get my work and feelings mixed together- it's business.

If I were to list something physical it would probably be my lips and/or eyes. My eyes look very dark in low light, but if I stand in direct light they go from looking very dark brown to a hazelish/green. Also, I have pouty lips. Not like Steven Tyler, but decent looking.

lilgreenmouse · 07-10-2009, 05:56 PM

soo hard, but great idea! =)

1. I'm a good listener (and can easily put myself in other ppl's shoes)
2. I'm very caring/sensitive/creative with the ppl I care about (I'm the type to make the extra effort in cheering them up, like baking cookies for a sad friend or sending a birthday note by mail as an olde 'message in a bottle', burnt at the edges and all, lol)
3. I have a good sense of control over my emotions. Some people might find me cold, uncaring or brutal in some situations, but I consider it an advantage. Truthfully though, I just don't care. =P
4. I'm creative and random.
5. I look damn good in my skinny jeans.

iingridd · 07-10-2009, 07:17 PM

Ok lets see

1. I like about myself that i'm starting to care about myself more.
2. That i can be funny and silly.
3. That i'm caring for others
4. That i consider my personality different and unsual in a good way.
5. That when i set my mind into something i really like i truly end up enjoying it.

leonardess · 07-10-2009, 07:32 PM

What the hell. despite my promise to myself not to over-use this site, I can't sleep, been up for the last hour. I have to do something.

1. Despite my advancing years and delicate sensibilities, I still have a great ***.

2. I am creative. Creating art is not a choice for me. It is like breathing.

3. I believe that underneath my defense mechanisms, I am naturally a caring, open, non-judgmental person.

O man, two more to go......

4. Hm. This is taking a while. *makes cup of tea*......hm....still thinking.....ah, ok. I fall in love too easily. That should be a bad thing maybe, but I don't think so. It shows that despite everything that's happened, I still believe in magic.......mushrooms. Only joking.

5. I love my family.

KyleThomas · 07-11-2009, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by leonardess

What the hell. despite my promise to myself not to over-use this site, I can't sleep, been up for the last hour. I have to do something.

1. Despite my advancing years and delicate sensibilities, I still have a great ***.

Just the one? What's wrong with the other one?

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2. I am creative. Creating art is not a choice for me. It is like breathing.

I used to be. Events in my life seem to have sucked the creativity out of me. I guess I've learnt to live without breathing.

leonardess · 07-11-2009, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by KyleThomas

Just the one? What's wrong with the other one?

I used to be. Events in my life seem to have sucked the creativity out of me. I guess I've learnt to live without breathing.

that's one of the saddest things I've ever read. I am genuinely sorry to hear that. I hope you don't let that go on much longer.

What's wrong with the other one? Actually,, it's pretty handy. I can throw it over my shoulder, wrap it around like a scarf when it's cold, etc.

incidentally, I can't believe the other word for buttocks is censored on here. Buttocks. Can I say buttocks? when I come back later, will I find that I speak in *******'s?

KyleThomas · 07-11-2009, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by leonardess

that's one of the saddest things I've ever read. I am genuinely sorry to hear that. I hope you don't let that go on much longer.

It's not that bad really. I was never exactly Charles Dickens to begin with. Actually, even Dan Brown is probably a master wordsmith compared to me.

How long it goes on for is sort of out of my hands. I can only really be creative when my mind is focused, and my mind has been on all kinds of other crap for quite a while now.

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What's wrong with the other one? Actually, it's pretty handy. I can throw it over my shoulder, wrap it around like a scarf when it's cold, etc.

Must come in handy on long haul flights. You have your own personal in-flight pillow at your disposal.

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incidentally, I can't believe the other word for buttocks is censored on here. Buttocks. Can I say buttocks? when I come back later, will I find that I speak in *******'s?

I didn't realise that certain words were censored. I've been censoring myself. If I'd known, I'd have let someone else put the effort in.

njodis · 07-11-2009, 02:53 PM

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LoneLioness · 07-11-2009, 03:38 PM

1. I'm wise
2. I'm funny
3. I stand up for myself
4. I have good morals
5. I'm a good conversationalist

huh · 07-11-2009, 03:55 PM

1. I have my own place to live.
2. I finished an associates degree.
3. I have a job.

I can't think of anything else. Oh well.

07-03-2009, 12:40 AM	#23 (permalink)
Ospi Status: Swoit Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Brisbane, Australia Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 1,499	1. Genuinely a nice guy (or at least it is what I am told) 2. Easily make friends 3. Passionate about my career path 4. Usually do a good job at whatever I set my mind to 5. Genuinely care about peoples feelings and do what I can to make them feel better or help understand themselves better. __________________ "Racing is life. Anything that happens before or after...is just waiting"

07-03-2009, 12:57 AM	#24 (permalink)
Ununderstood Status: "Why So Serious?" Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Texas Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 289	Wow this is hard...... 1. Maybe my height...but then again im only 6'0" Wow this sucks, I hate myself...f*** this thread lol. __________________ "If only we'd stop trying to be happy we'd have a pretty good time."

07-10-2009, 07:17 PM	#33 (permalink)
iingridd Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: NY Gender: Female Age: 26 Posts: 25	Ok lets see 1. I like about myself that i'm starting to care about myself more. 2. That i can be funny and silly. 3. That i'm caring for others 4. That i consider my personality different and unsual in a good way. 5. That when i set my mind into something i really like i truly end up enjoying it. __________________ "Is that fun for you? Analyzing everyone else's fun away?" -House M.D.

07-11-2009, 03:38 PM	#39 (permalink)
LoneLioness Status: Hiding In My Den Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Niagara Falls Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 5,165	1. I'm wise 2. I'm funny 3. I stand up for myself 4. I have good morals 5. I'm a good conversationalist __________________ My Blog: http://pessimistsarethetruerealists.blogspot.com

07-01-2009, 09:32 PM	#21 (permalink)
Sunshine009 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Gender: Female Posts: 1,638	I'm alive and relatively healthy I believe in a God who gives us wisdom when we ask for it I have freewill I have goals I have love for others

07-02-2009, 05:03 AM	#22 (permalink)
Annie K Status: ........... Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Virginia Gender: Female Posts: 171	1. I'm very empathetic, I genuinely care about other people, and I don't hate anyone. 2. I'm peaceful/gentle/not violent. 3. I'm a great cook. 4. My right eye is two different colors, and I think it looks pretty unique and cool. 5. I'm forgiving and never really hold grudges.

07-03-2009, 08:29 AM	#25 (permalink)
kos Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Ontario Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 513	1. Indomitable - Just something I was blessed with and something that runs in the family. Coming from nothing, rags to riches, S.A. to alpha male. I refuse to quit until death. 2. Spirited - Yes there are times where i am quite deeply depressed and feel beaten down by life, but most often then not i seem to maintain a cheerful, buoyant view of the world. 3. Courageous - I have so much emotion at times (mostly due to music) that it enables me to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear. This allows me to take extreme risks (which for some reason im attracted to). 4. Warm Hearted - I'm the kind of person that will work hard for a paycheck and give half of it away to someone living on the street just to see how happy it makes them. 5. A Firm Buttox - Thats right a guy can have a nice *** too.

07-03-2009, 09:03 AM	#26 (permalink)
Sunshine009 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Gender: Female Posts: 1,638	1-health skills 2-work skills 3-money skills 4-creative skills 5-history/law skills

07-03-2009, 09:06 AM	#27 (permalink)
H4hope Status: H4hope Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Los Angeles Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 35	1. I'm artistic 2. People do tend to like me once they see part of me out of my shell 3. I've been told I'm pretty even without make up (haha) 4. Apologizing is not hard for me. I rarely get into fights for I always try to put myself in other ppl's shoes first. If I'm not wrong of course I'll point it out in a calm matter and try to resolve the issue. 5. Mmm....Nothing special but I speak 2 languages (Japanese/English) You know, this is harder than I thought it would be haha

07-03-2009, 03:52 PM	#28 (permalink)
lastofthekews Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Leicester, United Kingdom Gender: Male Age: 31 Posts: 909	1. I am a kind and caring guy. 2. I will do all I can to help genuine people out, if they require my help. 3. I am a good driver. 4. I am intelligent. 5. I'm a good listener, who can be trusted to keep anything personal between me and the other person.

07-03-2009, 07:28 PM	#29 (permalink)
SAgirl Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Northwestern Ontario, 20 hour drive from TO Gender: Female Age: 30 Posts: 3,035	1. I care about other people. I'm a great listener. 2. If my family needs help, I'm always available 3. I'm patient and kind-hearted, loyal, honest and trustworthy. 4. Although, I get told by others many negative messages constantly about myself "that I'm an idiot or a loser, I do nothing." I know that what these people are saying is untrue. 5. I love my taste in music.

07-09-2009, 01:35 PM	#30 (permalink)
templar19 Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: British Columbia Gender: Male Posts: 75	5 may be a little ambitious. You can post just a few things you like about yourself...or even one thing.

07-10-2009, 05:12 AM	#31 (permalink)
MrFrenz Status: Poster of Random Nothings Join Date: May 2009 Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 46	I can read and spell very well. At a young age I learned to read and most of the kids in my classes would ask me to read to them and spell things for them. I pride myself on my spelling acumen. I can make people laugh. I like seeing people smile and have a good time around me because I feed off that energy and it puts me in a better mood. I can be very mopey, but if someone actively tries to help I respond enthusiastically. I have a great family. They are incredibly supportive, and I know I can go to them with just about anything. Especially my mom. Even people who I barely know who have met her love my mom. I'm relatively no-nonsense. I could talk to people about the weather, but why bother? I'd rather get to the point and get something done. Some people think this trait is not very useful, but subtlety can only get you so far until you finally have to open your mouth and say what you want. I'm professional. I don't really get my work and feelings mixed together- it's business. If I were to list something physical it would probably be my lips and/or eyes. My eyes look very dark in low light, but if I stand in direct light they go from looking very dark brown to a hazelish/green. Also, I have pouty lips. Not like Steven Tyler, but decent looking.

07-10-2009, 05:56 PM	#32 (permalink)
lilgreenmouse Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 32	soo hard, but great idea! =) 1. I'm a good listener (and can easily put myself in other ppl's shoes) 2. I'm very caring/sensitive/creative with the ppl I care about (I'm the type to make the extra effort in cheering them up, like baking cookies for a sad friend or sending a birthday note by mail as an olde 'message in a bottle', burnt at the edges and all, lol) 3. I have a good sense of control over my emotions. Some people might find me cold, uncaring or brutal in some situations, but I consider it an advantage. Truthfully though, I just don't care. =P 4. I'm creative and random. 5. I look damn good in my skinny jeans.

07-10-2009, 07:32 PM	#34 (permalink)
leonardess Status: wheresthefire?inmyeye! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: WILL you people please leave me alone?I'm supposed to be working lol Gender: Female Age: 45 Posts: 1,226	What the hell. despite my promise to myself not to over-use this site, I can't sleep, been up for the last hour. I have to do something. 1. Despite my advancing years and delicate sensibilities, I still have a great **. 2. I am creative. Creating art is not a choice for me. It is like breathing. 3. I believe that underneath my defense mechanisms, I am naturally a caring, open, non-judgmental person. O man, two more to go...... 4. Hm. This is taking a while. makes cup of tea*......hm....still thinking.....ah, ok. I fall in love too easily. That should be a bad thing maybe, but I don't think so. It shows that despite everything that's happened, I still believe in magic.......mushrooms. Only joking. 5. I love my family.

07-11-2009, 02:53 PM	#38 (permalink)
njodis Status: kermit in shock Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ontario Gender: Male Posts: 7,713	1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

07-11-2009, 03:55 PM	#40 (permalink)
huh Status: Statistical Anomaly Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: WI Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 1,036	1. I have my own place to live. 2. I finished an associates degree. 3. I have a job. I can't think of anything else. Oh well.