Social Anxiety Support

Kush · 10-24-2009, 11:47 AM

this girl just called me and wants 2 go to a movie with me and shes paying?!?!?!?!?!?! i havent talked to her since high school, good things NEVER happen for me , to top it off shes really good looking

thelonelyloner · 10-24-2009, 12:49 PM

Yes Man. Accept and relax. Remember that she invited so she must really like you.

BTW, I like your Biggie sig.

Lovesick Loner · 10-24-2009, 01:10 PM

Good to hear and good luck. I'd just play it cool, be yourself, and don't do the whole stage rehearsal thing in your head. It's a good sign when a girl asks YOU out. That's half the battle because you automatically know one of these two scenarios are true:

1) At the very least she's not weirded out by you. Maybe she just thinks you're a really nice guy and wants you as a friend, which is never a bad thing.
2) At the very best she really likes you. She might be looking to start a relationship or something more "short-term."

STORMZ13 · 10-24-2009, 01:44 PM

Man that's cool. Speaking from experience, It's pretty ruff on a guy who suffers from SA and has to ask a girl out. Your friend just made it that much more simpler for ya.
Hope you have a great time.

2Talkative · 10-24-2009, 02:41 PM

good luck, hope it works out for you.

Kush · 10-24-2009, 10:56 PM

bull****! I knew she was going 2 bring her friend with her, at least it was free dont c saw 4

2Talkative · 10-24-2009, 11:56 PM

****ty deal.... look at it on the good side of things you got to go out.

post 420.....now only if I still smoked lol....

Lovesick Loner · 10-26-2009, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Kush

bull****! I knew she was going 2 bring her friend with her, at least it was free dont c saw 4

Classic chick move, bringing the friend. Don't lose hope with her, though. They just like doing that for some reason.

Girl_Loner · 10-26-2009, 11:13 PM

Heard anything from her since?
Still pretty gutsy of her to ask you, I don't know why you are so pissed about her bringing her friend. Going to a movie with 2 girls vs staying at home?

Daxter · 10-26-2009, 11:49 PM

''I GOT TO GO OUT WITH 2 CHICKS!'' would've been a much better reply

Don't be angry. You didn't have much of a crush on her before, or did you?

BTW,

bwidger85 · 10-27-2009, 03:56 PM

LOL, that is a classic chick move

Nice going!

Catching Fire · 10-28-2009, 03:51 PM

Hey if you like her you could build off of it. Hanging out at first is a good way to work your way into relationship with her if thats what you want.

Stu · 11-01-2009, 08:32 PM

Don't let her pay, at the very least split the tickets and shout the snacks. Nice and casual-like...oh yeah

MFwill · 11-02-2009, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Kush

bull****! I knew she was going 2 bring her friend with her, at least it was free dont c saw 4

Haha sorry to hear that brother, I can most certaintly relate..but like other posters have stated it beats staying at home.

10-24-2009, 11:47 AM	#1 (permalink)
Kush Status: Insomnia Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Illinois Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 276	Just Got Asked Out? this girl just called me and wants 2 go to a movie with me and shes paying?!?!?!?!?!?! i havent talked to her since high school, good things NEVER happen for me , to top it off shes really good looking __________________ Splash it with the water, whip it make it harder 17 for 'em the same number as Quincy Carter

10-24-2009, 02:41 PM	#5 (permalink)
2Talkative Status: MIA Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Vancouver BC Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 507	good luck, hope it works out for you. __________________ "I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." - Henry Rollins

10-24-2009, 10:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
Kush Status: Insomnia Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Illinois Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 276	bull****! I knew she was going 2 bring her friend with her, at least it was free dont c saw 4 __________________ Splash it with the water, whip it make it harder 17 for 'em the same number as Quincy Carter

10-24-2009, 11:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
2Talkative Status: MIA Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Vancouver BC Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 507	****ty deal.... look at it on the good side of things you got to go out. post 420.....now only if I still smoked lol.... __________________ "I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." - Henry Rollins

10-26-2009, 11:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
Daxter Status: Free Speech Advocate Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Getting closer to an SA-less life Gender: Male Posts: 211	''I GOT TO GO OUT WITH 2 CHICKS!'' would've been a much better reply Don't be angry. You didn't have much of a crush on her before, or did you? BTW, __________________ ...without love, without anger, without sorrow, breath is just a clock... ticking.

10-24-2009, 12:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
thelonelyloner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: NH Gender: Male Posts: 74	Yes Man. Accept and relax. Remember that she invited so she must really like you. BTW, I like your Biggie sig.

10-24-2009, 01:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
Lovesick Loner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 164	Good to hear and good luck. I'd just play it cool, be yourself, and don't do the whole stage rehearsal thing in your head. It's a good sign when a girl asks YOU out. That's half the battle because you automatically know one of these two scenarios are true: 1) At the very least she's not weirded out by you. Maybe she just thinks you're a really nice guy and wants you as a friend, which is never a bad thing. 2) At the very best she really likes you. She might be looking to start a relationship or something more "short-term."

10-24-2009, 01:44 PM	#4 (permalink)
STORMZ13 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: So. California Gender: Male Posts: 22	Man that's cool. Speaking from experience, It's pretty ruff on a guy who suffers from SA and has to ask a girl out. Your friend just made it that much more simpler for ya. Hope you have a great time.

10-26-2009, 11:13 PM	#9 (permalink)
Girl_Loner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cardboard Box Gender: Female Posts: 524	Heard anything from her since? Still pretty gutsy of her to ask you, I don't know why you are so pissed about her bringing her friend. Going to a movie with 2 girls vs staying at home?

10-27-2009, 03:56 PM	#11 (permalink)
bwidger85 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 704	LOL, that is a classic chick move Nice going! __________________ Album #3 (download my complete third album as it is right now!)

10-28-2009, 03:51 PM	#12 (permalink)
Catching Fire Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Gender: Male Posts: 452	Hey if you like her you could build off of it. Hanging out at first is a good way to work your way into relationship with her if thats what you want. __________________ No chains on my feet but Im not free- Bob Marley

11-01-2009, 08:32 PM	#13 (permalink)
Stu Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Hemisphere Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 36	Don't let her pay, at the very least split the tickets and shout the snacks. Nice and casual-like...oh yeah