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Nessy · 04-15-2011, 02:37 AM

Started the date with the usual hug and I gave her an easteregg I had filled with candy (she said earlier she was sad that she wasnt getting one from her parents) so she became very happy and hugged me again

After this we made some tacos and watched Toy Story 3. After we had eaten up I took the dishes to the kitchen and when I went back I sat myself right next to her and took my hand around her and she snuggled up to me!

It was very cozy.

After the finished watching the movie we played some wii mariokart (again hehe) for a little bit before I had to go. Then when we had hugged good bye I went for the kiss... and failed spectacularly

Was very nervous so I went in quite too fast and just gave her a peck

Send her a text when I got home that "wow that was clumsy

you are the first girl I've kissed

we should practice more later

good night and sweet dreams

" or something like that

She replied that it was fine and that we should definately practice more later

All in all, very happy. Managed to snuggle up to her and even go for the kiss even though it didnt exactly end up like a hollywood kiss

Told her earlier on when we were watching the movie that I was glad she had contacted me and she replied that she "just had to meet me" and actually signed up for 3 months so that should could contact me. I found it quite cute

Think we are heading for a relationship, no idea when to bring something like that up though.

Neptunus · 04-15-2011, 02:43 AM

Awwwwww!

Congratulations!

diamondheart89 · 04-15-2011, 02:46 AM

Awwwww!!

I'm so happy for you!

Spindrift · 04-15-2011, 02:49 AM

Awesome, man. Happy to hear that things are working out.

Gemini32 · 04-15-2011, 03:29 AM

next time you see her .. grab her and just kiss her on the lips .. for about min 5 secs

josephisaverb · 04-15-2011, 04:13 AM

Yes!

Leoluch · 04-15-2011, 09:02 AM

congrats man that is great to hear!

I need to work up the courage to do that! Probably my biggest fear at the moment.

Nessy · 04-15-2011, 09:10 AM

Thanks ya'll!

Never thought I'd get this far with a girl in my life, has boosted my self image a little bit actually.

Leoluch, the thing I did was just not think and go for the kiss. Just looked her in the eyes and went for it. Was over before I knew what happened but hey, I guess I'll get more chances

Wasnt as big/frightening as I thought it would be actually. So my advice is just go for it (easy to say I know).

Again thanks everyone and have a nice weekend and easter!

ImWeird · 04-15-2011, 10:04 AM

Nice!

Good job man. I banged my nose into the girl during my first kiss, haha.

sarafinanickelbocker · 04-15-2011, 10:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ImWeird

Nice!

Good job man. I banged my nose into the girl during my first kiss, haha.

hehe ^ that's kinda cute.

Anyway, good deal Nessy. You two seem to be hitting it off nicely yeah? Congrats!

madsv · 04-15-2011, 01:10 PM

Nice job bro. Keep it up!

sparkyoriental · 04-16-2011, 04:04 AM

Congrats! Awwww

JimmyDeansRetartedCousin · 04-16-2011, 04:37 AM

Well done man, that's a cute story!

SuperSky · 04-16-2011, 06:25 AM

Awesome!

TheShine · 04-16-2011, 07:00 AM

Good job, man!

As for asking her for a relationship, just tell her how you feel about her then tell her you her to be your girl It's that easy!

Nessy · 04-16-2011, 07:18 AM

When is it the appropriate time for asking if she wants to be bf/gf? She seems to like me a lot but I dont want to scare her away if its too early. She plans stuff for us like two months away (she said we should go to this amusement park in the summer) so I'm guessing she sees a future with me in it.

Any ideas?

rednosereindeer · 04-16-2011, 07:32 AM

After five dates, it sounds like both of you like each other enough and are both looking for a long-term relationship with each other. I think it can be implied that you're already bf/gf now, but I would wait for at least two more dates to confirm (not ask) that.

madsv · 04-16-2011, 07:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nessy

When is it the appropriate time for asking if she wants to be bf/gf? She seems to like me a lot but I dont want to scare her away if its too early. She plans stuff for us like two months away (she said we should go to this amusement park in the summer) so I'm guessing she sees a future with me in it.

Any ideas?

It is really impossible to say when you should ask for a relationship because it seems you are already in one. she is the only one you date and you are as I can understand the only one she dates. You dont really need to make it official but you could ask her if you can call her your girlfriend.

rymo · 04-16-2011, 02:08 PM

****ing finally, man...jeez...

Just kidding...congrats! Btw I don't see any reason for you to make things official by asking if you guys are bf/gf - it's obvious you guys are going out, just relax and don't make it so formal. Then again you told her she was your first kiss so she'll probably expect you to ask her something like that.

Anyways, it sounds like things are going great, keep it up!

crimsoncora · 04-16-2011, 02:18 PM

Cool beans

04-15-2011, 02:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
Nessy Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Norway Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 260	Fifth date done, ended with kiss! :D Started the date with the usual hug and I gave her an easteregg I had filled with candy (she said earlier she was sad that she wasnt getting one from her parents) so she became very happy and hugged me again After this we made some tacos and watched Toy Story 3. After we had eaten up I took the dishes to the kitchen and when I went back I sat myself right next to her and took my hand around her and she snuggled up to me! It was very cozy. After the finished watching the movie we played some wii mariokart (again hehe) for a little bit before I had to go. Then when we had hugged good bye I went for the kiss... and failed spectacularly Was very nervous so I went in quite too fast and just gave her a peck Send her a text when I got home that "wow that was clumsy you are the first girl I've kissed we should practice more later good night and sweet dreams " or something like that She replied that it was fine and that we should definately practice more later All in all, very happy. Managed to snuggle up to her and even go for the kiss even though it didnt exactly end up like a hollywood kiss Told her earlier on when we were watching the movie that I was glad she had contacted me and she replied that she "just had to meet me" and actually signed up for 3 months so that should could contact me. I found it quite cute Think we are heading for a relationship, no idea when to bring something like that up though.

04-15-2011, 02:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
diamondheart89 Status: giraffe Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: where the wild things are Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 4,019	Awwwww!! I'm so happy for you! __________________ It's written in scars of our hearts that we're not broken, just bent & we can learn to love again. Aloysius RIP 9.20.11 Resonance: I'm not going to mould someone else's gremlin! Pick your poison...everyone's got one.

04-15-2011, 02:49 AM	#4 (permalink)
Spindrift Status: Burning Beards Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Freedonia Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 2,461	Awesome, man. Happy to hear that things are working out. __________________ Aures habent, et non audient.

04-15-2011, 04:13 AM	#6 (permalink)
josephisaverb Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: . Gender: Male Posts: 157	Yes! __________________ Live the life you love, Love the life you live.

04-16-2011, 04:37 AM	#13 (permalink)
JimmyDeansRetartedCousin Status: Custom User Title Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ireland Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 4,234	Well done man, that's a cute story! __________________ "I think the existential dilemma is: We're social animals, so we all wrestle with a sense of inadequacy. But when we realize that we're not as inadequate as we thought we were, and when we realize that everybody elese also thinks they're inadequate, then the ache goes away and the idea that we're not a person of value disappears to some extent." "I wash myself with a rag on a stick"

04-15-2011, 02:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
Neptunus Status: User Requested Permanent Ban Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Navigating a sea of emotions Gender: Female Posts: 19,632	Awwwwww! Congratulations!

04-15-2011, 03:29 AM	#5 (permalink)
Gemini32 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: California Gender: Male Posts: 127	next time you see her .. grab her and just kiss her on the lips .. for about min 5 secs

04-15-2011, 09:02 AM	#7 (permalink)
Leoluch Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: ny Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 52	congrats man that is great to hear! I need to work up the courage to do that! Probably my biggest fear at the moment.

04-15-2011, 09:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
Nessy Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Norway Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 260	Thanks ya'll! Never thought I'd get this far with a girl in my life, has boosted my self image a little bit actually. Leoluch, the thing I did was just not think and go for the kiss. Just looked her in the eyes and went for it. Was over before I knew what happened but hey, I guess I'll get more chances Wasnt as big/frightening as I thought it would be actually. So my advice is just go for it (easy to say I know). Again thanks everyone and have a nice weekend and easter!

04-15-2011, 10:04 AM	#9 (permalink)
ImWeird Status: Mr. Weird Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Ontario Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 2,522	Nice! Good job man. I banged my nose into the girl during my first kiss, haha.

04-15-2011, 01:10 PM	#11 (permalink)
madsv Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Denmark Gender: Male Age: 30 Posts: 338	Nice job bro. Keep it up!

04-16-2011, 04:04 AM	#12 (permalink)
sparkyoriental Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 16	Congrats! Awwww

04-16-2011, 06:25 AM	#14 (permalink)
SuperSky Status: It stinks! Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 1,972	Awesome!

04-16-2011, 07:00 AM	#15 (permalink)
TheShine Status: SAS Operative Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Albany, NY during the school year. NYC when I'm off Gender: Male Posts: 57	Good job, man! As for asking her for a relationship, just tell her how you feel about her then tell her you her to be your girl It's that easy!

04-16-2011, 07:18 AM	#16 (permalink)
Nessy Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Norway Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 260	When is it the appropriate time for asking if she wants to be bf/gf? She seems to like me a lot but I dont want to scare her away if its too early. She plans stuff for us like two months away (she said we should go to this amusement park in the summer) so I'm guessing she sees a future with me in it. Any ideas?

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04-16-2011, 07:32 AM	#17 (permalink)
rednosereindeer Status: poll-happy Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 2,974	After five dates, it sounds like both of you like each other enough and are both looking for a long-term relationship with each other. I think it can be implied that you're already bf/gf now, but I would wait for at least two more dates to confirm (not ask) that.

04-16-2011, 02:08 PM	#19 (permalink)
rymo Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: CT Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 3,850	****ing finally, man...jeez... Just kidding...congrats! Btw I don't see any reason for you to make things official by asking if you guys are bf/gf - it's obvious you guys are going out, just relax and don't make it so formal. Then again you told her she was your first kiss so she'll probably expect you to ask her something like that. Anyways, it sounds like things are going great, keep it up!

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crimsoncora Status: User Requested Permanent Ban Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: in reality Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 546	Cool beans