Social Anxiety Support

iheartkpop · 06-16-2012, 05:05 PM

There's this guy at school (college) and every time we see each other, we would always stare at each other. He has this math class before mine so we'd see each other all the time. This one time I was talking to a classmate of mine and I saw him come out of the classroom and he was looking at me as he walked past me and smiled! I notice he always stare at me and I stare at him too. He's cute! So what does this mean? If a guy stares at you every time you see each other, it has to mean something right? If a guy isn't interested in you, he wouldn't be staring at you at all, would he? I wonder if this guy likes me or something. I really wished he came and talk to me or something. I wished one of us made the first move......now I won't get to see him anymore. If he thinks I'm cute or is interested in me, why didn't he do anything? Why didn't he come talk to me or make a move? Does he like me? I really wouldn't mind getting to know him or even date him

I don't even know him or his name. Darn! Any advice, tips, or suggestions?

Zeeshan · 06-16-2012, 05:07 PM

dont you people have facebook now adays

iheartkpop · 06-16-2012, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Zeeshan

dont you people have facebook now adays

Of course, I have fb. But what about it? I don't want to use fb to look for a boyfriend......besides, I don't really go on fb that much. I check to see if I have anything new then I just close the browser. Pretty much.

Zeeshan · 06-16-2012, 05:34 PM

no just find him and message him

WintersTale · 06-16-2012, 06:49 PM

Maybe he feels intimidated?

iheartkpop · 06-17-2012, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zeeshan

no just find him and message him

WE'RE STRANGERS.....so I don't know him or his name....is that bad?

Colie319 · 06-17-2012, 05:57 PM

I say start with a hey or something and try to get to know him don't be worried or scared go for it & see how it goes from there whether it's just friends or he becomes a potiental boyfriend.

Openyoureyes · 06-17-2012, 09:15 PM

first, let him know your aware he exists. say hi

that's all it takes to start something big. everything should fall into place after that.

franwspac · 06-18-2012, 05:08 AM

First of all try to know his name by any common friend or any other source and i am very much sure that he is feeling the same thing but as you thought that he would come and approach you like wise the same thought is also revolving in his mind to.One of you have to approach and be courageous. I am damn sure that he is all your,give him smile and wave hands some times i know he would approach you...Best of luck !!!!

06-16-2012, 05:05 PM	#1 (permalink)
iheartkpop Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: California Gender: Female Age: 19 Posts: 422	This One Guy At School..... There's this guy at school (college) and every time we see each other, we would always stare at each other. He has this math class before mine so we'd see each other all the time. This one time I was talking to a classmate of mine and I saw him come out of the classroom and he was looking at me as he walked past me and smiled! I notice he always stare at me and I stare at him too. He's cute! So what does this mean? If a guy stares at you every time you see each other, it has to mean something right? If a guy isn't interested in you, he wouldn't be staring at you at all, would he? I wonder if this guy likes me or something. I really wished he came and talk to me or something. I wished one of us made the first move......now I won't get to see him anymore. If he thinks I'm cute or is interested in me, why didn't he do anything? Why didn't he come talk to me or make a move? Does he like me? I really wouldn't mind getting to know him or even date him I don't even know him or his name. Darn! Any advice, tips, or suggestions?

06-17-2012, 09:15 PM	#8 (permalink)
Openyoureyes Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: NY Gender: Female Posts: 1,428	first, let him know your aware he exists. say hi that's all it takes to start something big. everything should fall into place after that. __________________ ask me for my tumblr!

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Zeeshan Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Not saying Gender: Male Posts: 2,545	dont you people have facebook now adays

06-16-2012, 05:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
Zeeshan Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Not saying Gender: Male Posts: 2,545	no just find him and message him

06-16-2012, 06:49 PM	#5 (permalink)
WintersTale Status: User Requested Permanent Ban Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 12,427	Maybe he feels intimidated?

06-17-2012, 05:57 PM	#7 (permalink)
Colie319 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: South Carolina Gender: Female Posts: 24	I say start with a hey or something and try to get to know him don't be worried or scared go for it & see how it goes from there whether it's just friends or he becomes a potiental boyfriend.

06-18-2012, 05:08 AM	#9 (permalink)
franwspac Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Gresham, OR Gender: Male Posts: 7	First of all try to know his name by any common friend or any other source and i am very much sure that he is feeling the same thing but as you thought that he would come and approach you like wise the same thought is also revolving in his mind to.One of you have to approach and be courageous. I am damn sure that he is all your,give him smile and wave hands some times i know he would approach you...Best of luck !!!!