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1990 · 03-28-2009, 06:27 PM

but i have no friends to go with, and i'd feel kind of lame going by myslef, should i go? kind of want to get that off my chest

Jerzy007 · 03-28-2009, 07:55 PM

Ohh yeah, i hope ur there as I write this

giggles · 05-01-2009, 01:37 PM

Ya!!! definitely go!! you cant miss out on a concert.

Brightpaperwarewolf · 05-01-2009, 03:38 PM

I go by myself most of the time. It's pretty cool.

trishtrish07 · 06-17-2009, 11:59 PM

im in the same postion
but think of this way "how much to do you want to go to that concert?" if alot go ,you dont want to end up regretting

zookeeper · 06-18-2009, 12:05 AM

Go Go Go!

Though I just noticed that this concert was 3 months ago. So, yeah. Hope it was fun.

carambola · 06-18-2009, 12:14 AM

I hope you went!

sociallyconscious · 09-05-2009, 11:41 AM

Hope you had fun!

Iced Soul · 09-05-2009, 11:26 PM

I hope you went and had a good time.

dirty rich · 09-08-2009, 08:23 PM

if there is alcohol there, just get drunk and make new friends

or if you dont drink go in the middle of one of those big mosh pit crowds

mooncake · 09-15-2009, 01:09 PM

I know this was posted a long while ago, but I just wanted to say that I've been going to more and more gigs recently, and although in my case I've been with somebody I can, however, assure anyone thinking about whether to go on their own that nobody will even notice if you're by yourself. They'll all be too busy enjoying the music! It might even be a good opportunity for you to meet people with a similar taste and if somebody should happen to notice you standing by yourself, for all they know you might just be waiting for someone to get back from the loo or from getting drinks. Go for it!

JLP · 10-27-2009, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirty rich

if there is alcohol there, just get drunk and make new friends

or if you dont drink go in the middle of one of those big mosh pit crowds

have you been spying on me...

03-28-2009, 06:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
1990 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Northern, California Gender: Male Posts: 15	i want to go to a concert tonight... but i have no friends to go with, and i'd feel kind of lame going by myslef, should i go? kind of want to get that off my chest

03-28-2009, 07:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jerzy007 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Trenton, NJ Gender: Male Posts: 126	Ohh yeah, i hope ur there as I write this __________________ "The definition of success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm"-Winston Churchill

05-01-2009, 03:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
Brightpaperwarewolf Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Northern Virginia Gender: Male Posts: 928	I go by myself most of the time. It's pretty cool. __________________ Happiness is only real if shared.

06-18-2009, 12:05 AM	#6 (permalink)
zookeeper Status: The floor is lava!! Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Soap Fortress Gender: Male Age: 30 Posts: 1,062	Go Go Go! Though I just noticed that this concert was 3 months ago. So, yeah. Hope it was fun. __________________ You leapt into the abyss, but find It only goes up to your knees, ~ Nick Cave

09-05-2009, 11:41 AM	#8 (permalink)
sociallyconscious Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Maryland, US Gender: Female Posts: 62	Hope you had fun! __________________ "look here she comes now bow down and stare in wonder oh how we love you no flaws when you're pretending but now i know she never was and never will be you don't know how you've betrayed me and somehow you've got everybody fooled...."

05-01-2009, 01:37 PM	#3 (permalink)
giggles Status: !!!!!!!!!!!!! Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: ireland Gender: Female Age: 16 Posts: 59	Ya!!! definitely go!! you cant miss out on a concert.

06-17-2009, 11:59 PM	#5 (permalink)
trishtrish07 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: where the sun shines Gender: Female Posts: 3	im in the same postion but think of this way "how much to do you want to go to that concert?" if alot go ,you dont want to end up regretting

06-18-2009, 12:14 AM	#7 (permalink)
carambola Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: California Age: 24 Posts: 735	I hope you went!

09-05-2009, 11:26 PM	#9 (permalink)
Iced Soul Status: Dancing on Rainbows Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Calilalaland Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 1,775	I hope you went and had a good time. __________________ I scraped my knees while I was praying And found a demon in my safest haven. Seems like, it's getting harder to believe in anything Than just to get lost in all my selfish thoughts. I wanna know what it'd be like To find perfection in my pride To see nothing in the light Just turn it off In all my spite, in all my spite, I'll turn it off. - Turn It Off - Paramore http://twitter.com/MissEerie

09-08-2009, 08:23 PM	#10 (permalink)
dirty rich Status: SAS Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: California Gender: Female Age: 16 Posts: 44	if there is alcohol there, just get drunk and make new friends or if you dont drink go in the middle of one of those big mosh pit crowds __________________ if i ran the zoo, i'd let all the animals go!

09-15-2009, 01:09 PM	#11 (permalink)
mooncake Status: wooden hippie nice Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 189	I know this was posted a long while ago, but I just wanted to say that I've been going to more and more gigs recently, and although in my case I've been with somebody I can, however, assure anyone thinking about whether to go on their own that nobody will even notice if you're by yourself. They'll all be too busy enjoying the music! It might even be a good opportunity for you to meet people with a similar taste and if somebody should happen to notice you standing by yourself, for all they know you might just be waiting for someone to get back from the loo or from getting drinks. Go for it!