She is completely wrong and unprofessional. I was a psychology major and we talked a lot about the therapist/client relationship in one of my classes. Trust is extremely important. Even if she was an excellent therapist (which it doesn't sound like she is), if you (as the client) don't feel like you have trust or aren't comfortable for whatever reason then therapy isn't going to do you much good at all. I had another psychology teacher tell the class that he had recently had a client leave him because she felt she would be more comfortable with a female. He said he would never take that personal no matter what the reason would be for someone leaving, he just wants the best for his client and understands that he might not always be what is best. That is the attitude that a real professional therapist should have, not the attitude that quack lady had. It is good you got away from her. Hope that this other man will be much better for you.
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