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Why, then, are so many in pain? There is no good or easy answer when tragedies occur. But to try and understand, we must step back and look at the big picture. God made everything perfect. When man sinned, that perfection was spoiled and all of our environment was tainted. The fact is, we live in a world where evil abounds. It is rampant throughout every aspect of creation. We are subject to the evil actions of sinful people around us. God can and does intervene in some events, but why not others? Only He knows that answer, but the Bible teaches that there will be a time when He will end this world as we know it. In heaven, there will be no more death, sadness, pain, sickness, or suffering of any kind. Below are some thoughts on why I believe God allows us to suffer. 1) One reason many of us suffer is because we do things that cause us pain. We don't eat right, so we have heart attacks. We drive carelessly or fast, so we have accidents. We smoke, so we get lung cancer. 2) But what about innocent children who are not responsible for their suffering? Why do they get sick? Maybe it's because we do not live in a perfect world. God intended for us to have perfect bodies, perfect health, and freedom from pain and suffering. The world He created was originally perfect, just as He had planned it. But evil destroyed our perfect world. When sin entered the picture, it brought with it death, pain, and suffering. Don't misunderstand me, people do not suffer because of their own personal sins, necessarily; but because the world is changed because of sin being in the world. Jesus said, "In this world, you will have tribulation." Just as in the case with Job, I believe that evil forces attack us and cause much suffering in an attempt to get people to blame God and turn away from Him. In order for God to preserve our rights as individuals (to choose for ourselves), He had to allow us the freedom to sin. He also had to allow the consequences of our behaviors. That means that He does not normally interfere with things which happen naturally in this world, such as sickness and disease caused by toxins in the environment, accidents as a result of risky behaviors, and natural disasters resulting from changes in the ozone layer, etc. God does not cause these natural consequences, but He does allow them. However, many times, He does intervene miraculously or work even in the worst of situations to bring about something good from them. 3) Why would God allow me to suffer? Maybe so that I can increase my faith in Him, increase my compassion for others, or be better able to encourage and help other hurting people (2 Corinthians 1:3-5). BUT WE DO HAVE HOPE FOR BETTER THINGS: Though this world is no longer perfect, as God intended it to be; He will create a perfect world for us in heaven where there will no longer be any tears, pain, or suffering; and "death will be swallowed up in victory." Why? Because God will ultimately get rid of everything that is not HIS. Suffering, sin, pain, tears and death are not HIS. We have HOPE that all suffering will be relieved when we go to spend eternity with God. BUT, this promise of eternal bliss is only for those who know, serve, and love Him. God is not the cause of any suffering in this world, Satan is! To blame God for evil is foolish, because it actually causes us to follow the one who IS truly responsible for pain and problems. Why doesn't God cure our bodies? Maybe because our souls are of greater importance to him than our bodies are! Though He cares about our physical suffering, healing our soul is more urgent because it is the soul that lives forever. Our relationship with God is what determines WHERE that soul spends eternity. It is my prayer that all who suffer here on earth will seek God and TRUE healing (of the soul) that He offers, so that they can all gather in Heaven where there will be no more sickness and pain. Hopefully we will all meet there for the feast that God has promised to those who enter through the narrow gate. In this world, bad things happen even to good people. Those who have a personal relationship with God are better able to cope with whatever happens in their lives. We can live without fear, even though we do not know what the future holds IF we know the one who holds the future in His hands. When we discover the great love God has for us, we can let go of our fear. Psalm 27:1 says "The Lord is my salvation. Whom shall I fear?" Jesus triumphed over death, and He alone can save us from eternal death. He can also see us through all the trials of life and bring us safely to heaven! No one can comfort the depths of our sorrows except God. Read His promises in the Bible, and your heart will be encouraged. If you fail to see Him as the only source of hope presented in the pages of the Hugs and HOPE web site, then I have failed in my effort. If you don't know Him, but you want to known Him, I would love to introduce Him to you! WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT SUFFERING: Romans 8:18: "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth being compared with the glory that is about to be revealed to us!" Romans 8:17: "We must also share in his suffering, if we are to share in his glory." John 16:33: "In this world you will have tribulation. But be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world." (Or as another translations puts it: "Take courage, I've deprived it of its power to harm and conquer you.") James 5:13: "Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray." 1 Peter 4:12: "Do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you. But to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing." And verse 19 says: "Let those who suffer ... entrust their souls to a faithful Creator. . ." |
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Adam and Eve sinned so it passed on this imperfection to humans. Satan later raised a challenge before God. He said that people could rule and be successful without God's guidance-so God allowed him to prove it. Now look at the sad situation in the world. Are most people being guided by God? No, for they lack the love reflected by Christ Jesus himself who set the perfect example of love for neighbor. How can people kill and consider themselves "Christians"?
For example: In a sense God is the teacher and Satan was the "student". Let's suppose Satan said "Teacher, I have a better way and I can teach people a better way to do something than you can!" Then God said, Okay prove it because I want people to know for sure that what you teach will eventually cause problems and it will turn out bad. It is just a matter of time, so go ahead." (Destroying the serpent, Satan right then would not have proved anything and it would possibly have caused peple to believe that maybe ppl could do better without God.) The angels are also involved in this meaning it concerns them as it does people. Over thousands of years, it is evident that Satan's way of doing things has turned out faulty for everyone. Wars, crime and other violence being caused by him has proved that he cannot rule a successful world. He has made it worse. God promises to destroy Satan and bring a new world on earth as it is in heaven. (Don't forget the Lord's prayer.) Remember in Genesis what he said about the promised seed Jesus(Satan would bruise Jesus in the "heel" and then Jesus would bruise Satan in the head meaning the head is a more serious injury which would end in his permanent destruction.(Genesis 3:15.) Satan really does rule this earth. God is on trial and wants to clear his name of all reproach. Like anyone on trial, he has to have his name cleared based on evidence. Satan has to be proved guilty based on evidence too. This is not a trial in a literal courtroom. It all takes place among God and Jesus in heaven. No human can stop Satan. If you want to know the main reason for suffering it is Satan.The rest is mankind's lack of reliance toward God. This is not to say that ALL people don't rely on God. Sincere people rely on God everyday. 'He is healing the broken-hearted ones and is binding up their painful spots.' Psalm 147:3 Quote:
Let me suggest some articles based on the Bible. They are not any of my opinions. I think people need to know because this confuses people. Let these articles help you to understand. http://www.watchtower.org/e/200611/article_02.htm http://www.watchtower.org/e/20030501/article_01.htm http://www.watchtower.org/e/20040322/article_01.htm http://www.watchtower.org/e/200611/article_01.htm
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I don't mean to get over preachy, but there in Job it shows the Devil was walking about in the earth and not in some fiery pit. It says at Job 1:7 God asks Satan, "Where do you come from?" At that Satan answered, "From roving about in the earth and walking about in it.
Then it talks about how he had attacked Job one who was "blameless" and "upright". At that point Satan was taunting God and saying that Job only served him because he gave him so much, a home, cattle, etc. Then he said that Job would turn against him if he withdrew his blessings and let Satan cause him problems-anything except not to kill him. Can't we be tested in the same way today? Thats the point he was making.
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I've always liked the story of Job "Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?" God is free to judge his creation "Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth? declare, if you have understanding"
Maybe i'm weird, I don't believe in the divinity of the bible but enjoy scripture. I agree with the core message anyways i'm not trying to debate anyone "Why me?" and "Why do good things happen to bad people?" is something that us SAers continuely worry about and it saddens me that many lose their minds and hearts to it without thinking it through.
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Thanks for contributing to this thread!
For myself personally, I find it better to openly embrace suffering, and reinforce my faith by praying, so i'm not blind sided by events that are naturally going to happen, sickness, death, accidents, you name it, its all going to happen at some point. Reading the bible, studying the stories and developing a personal relationship with god has PROVEN to me, that i'm not alone and that I have strength beyond myself. In this world, I feel people try to suppress suffering, numb it or alter their mind states through drugs or entertainment, sort of a "brainwashing" effect to shelter their minds from the inevitable. Then get completely tail spinned when something in life (which is bound to happen)...occurs to "wake them up." Awareness and strength through God has given me comfort and I don't fall to pieces at small stressors anymore. |
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god plays no part in people's suffering.
there are laws to this uniververse and we live by those laws. if we break the laws we face the conseguences and god canot interfear with the consequences cos if he did thn he would take away free will from human beings. for example if you kill another being then you must face the consequences. a person has free will to choose either to kill someone or not kill someone. if they choose to not kill somebody then there is NO consequences to be faced. but if they choose to kill then they immediately activatethe law of cause and effect , crime and consequence. the momnt they kil they have consequences waiting for them in the future. the consequences can be anything , it might be a heart attack, divorce , a road accident, cancer. if that person person who killed as to develop cancer years later as a consequence for there actions then that person would be suffering. now if god entered the equation and cured that persons cancer then god hs took away that persons free will. that person had the free will to either kill or no kill but if god cures he consequence of choosing the bad action then the persons free will hs gone cos it wouldnt matter ifhe chose good or bad cos nothing would happen when you do bad . there are laws in this world and god does not interfere with these laws. just like the law of gravity is always here, so to is the law of cause and effect. and just like god doesnt interfere with graity he doesnt interfere with caise and effect either |
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^ Well said. I think everything is related to law and their is no magic to ones pain or suffering. Cause and effect are the reasons from a scientific view why things happen for clear reasons. Unless God is pissed at science their may be certain unexplained circumstances no one can solve.
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I'm sorry you feel that way. That's exactly what some ppl are lead to believe.
And you don't need proof from the Bible to believe in God. What do you see when you go outside or when you treasure something small and insignificant that really does matter? What about so many things that are intricate in nature as if designed by "someone"? What has led you to believe this and that life is in vain b/c it would be IF there were no God.
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Yeah like the "cause and effect". What a person does willingly or unwillingly has consequences. It doesn't mean God does it. There's a difference between causing something and allowing it.
Example: A mother and her small child are driving on the road when a huge semi truck come barreling through on the wrong side of the road-the driver he's intoxicated-he smashes the car to pieces and the child and mother are killed instantly. Who do you blame? The drunk driver who should never be out on the road or the power of God who for some unknown reason wants to take the life of an innocent mother and her daughter. God is simply NOT responsible for accidents and evil. Quote:
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If you want a view from a non-Christian - I believe that the reason God causes suffering is fairly simple because without it we wouldn't appreciate non-suffering (happiness). It's also been my experience that people who have been through the most suffering are generally nicer people after it. And then if you look at the big picture - some people have to suffer in order to make other people's lives seem easier.
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Before this thread is closed for debate i'd like to encourage everyone to read up on the "problem of evil" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_problem_of_evil it makes up for some good philosophical reading.
My biggest problem with the idea of satan/evil is how can it be seperate yet part of Gods plan? This means that ulimately satan is doing Gods work, unless you disconnect your brain and believe that god is beyond human logic which is ok too.
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I couldn't answer as succinctly as I would have liked so I found this, hope it helps: Quote:
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Amazing how so many people can put their faith in fictional beings, no wonder so many people have problems. For those wishing to bombard me with their so-called "proof": I was a follow for many years, many years ago...I know the bible, I know the traditions, and now I know the real truth. I suggest everyone do a little un-biased research to validate your belief....that doesn't mean you seek answers from a religious school or church.
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Yes the story of Job has helped me reconcile the problem of evil, it's more the idea of Satan being described as a seperate entity from God that I have problems with. I can't really cope with a being that would deny us His light as punishment. But that is my problem and ventures into seperate spirituality from christianity.
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Why are some so confident that these "fictional'" characters don't exist? That's what the Devil wants ppl to believe. Look at the evil in the world. Look at how it is worsening. It isn't just that mankind just gets greedier, it's Satan's influence. The Bible says Satan blinds the minds of the unbelievers.
2 Corinthians 4:4 For those who cannot see beyond their nose-the ones who automatically dismiss God/Jesus/Devil as unreal. (See Psalms 10:4) (Usually it's the, "I can't see what I don't believe.") When in reality those who don't believe in God/Jesus/Devil believe in many things they can't see. We can't see a lot but scientists know certain sub-atomic particles exist and the way light works and so forth. They are confident whatever makes things in science work is there but yet to be seen with the naked eye or a microscope. We think we have the answers? We have not begun to scratch the surface. We are mere human beings with limited capacity compared to the "fictional characters" out there beyond our sight. I dare not challenge God and tell him how to run things or ask him about his sense of justice. Who am I do do that? I do recommend that people study for themselves not necessarily the Bible but nature, science, stop and look at the small things and the big and you see intellect. Not some empty force that just popped into existence. If there is no God, there would be no life, no nothing. We would not exist. For his invisible qualities are clearly seen from the world's creation onward because they are perceived by the things made, even his eternal power and Godship so that they are inexcusable. Romans 1:20 Quote:
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"YOU are from YOUR father the Devil, and YOU wish to do the desires of YOUR father. That one was a manslayer when he began, and he did not stand fast in the truth, because truth is not in him. When he speaks the lie, he speaks according to his own disposition, because he is a liar and the father of [the lie]. *John 8:44 Even the Bible says that 1/3 of the angels of heaven disobeyed- *And another sign was seen in heaven, and, look! a great fiery-colored dragon, with seven heads and ten horns and upon its heads seven diadems; *and its tail drags a third of the stars of heaven, and it hurled them down to the earth.. Revelation 12:4 Understand that after this angel grew wicked and became Satan he was an enemy of God-not a collaborator. He and God do not work together. They are totally opposite. In no way part of a single entity.
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Don't quote illogical nonsense to me. "Evil" as you call it, is open to interpretation. Is a lion evil for eating a gazelle? Or is a black hole evil for destroying a star? No, merely these are just the way the universe works. If you are going to fire back with the behaviors of man against each other, remember where you are....these behaviors are not of the devil but of faulty personality traits, chemical imbalances, emotional scaring, etc. Why must you theists demonize everything?
All of your praying and worship has not cured you of your SA ills, have they?
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This is why I am not a christian, I enjoy many of the things christianity has to offer but I simply view Jesus/the bible/word of God as metaphor rather than literal truth. From my point of view we are both on the same path just taking different routes. No disrespect to anyone intended, even if you disagree.
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