Originally Posted by Complicated45
A lot of the time when I am talking to someone there always seems to be someone better to talk to for that person and they go off and leave me (not intentionally).
Before I became a Christian, I suffered with SA, now it dont bother me.
If people wanna talk to me fine, if they dont, fine!
I dont go outa my way to make friends or contact people.
I have been in situations where people come up to you, shake your hand whilst looking the other way, you can look strait at them and they dont even notice.
Perhaps there scared they'll miss someone they really like!
Its all "cosmetic" at the end of the day!
When people ask u "how are u", there not really interested as they expect the standard reply,"I'm fine thank you, how are you", person then replies "I'm fine thank you".
Tish tosh and a bottle of fish!
I would rather speak to one genuine person in a meeting, who mean what they say, than a whole bunch of people who dont!
So b yourself, dont expect them to notice or even b interested in you, dont think you have to talk to anyone just to be sociable.
There often too busy worrying about their own wretched lives to care for others.
Genuine friends are very rare, and u can often count them on one hand!
Yeh I know, I am a cynic, thats true, but I am also a realist!
Guess what, it works for me...................