I chose "other" because I'm separating character from personality. Personality is still more of an external thing to me than character. Personalities change and mean very little in dire situations. A girl can be funny, charming, & polite but her inner heart, the aspect of one's nature that remains unchanged is much more valuable. Putting love in someone's personality has proved to be potentially detrimental to my well being. If through all the beatings society gives her she still shares similar virtues to me I will be extremely attracted.
Her personality would go right after that though...if she's smart I will definitely be much more attracted to her.
I she the law of attraction for me as a multiplier system. I might instinctually notice the weaker of the multipliers first but nonetheless a good balance between Looks, character, & personality would have me sprung.
Looks x 1.5
Lets say she was a 7 in looks but had the perfect character she'd then be a 21 lol...now my system needs tweaks and I now have no idea what I'm saying but yeaaahhh ignore my multiplier system lol
that character and personality is what's sexiest about a lady though...and to be honest the most important part of her personality is maturity and honesty..all that other ish may be attractive but I don't value it more than maturity and honesty. I believe how funny or loud or polite she is doesn't really matter to me at this point. Maybe I'll grow into another appeal.