Social Anxiety Support

_AJ_ · 11-03-2009, 04:28 AM

I swear to god, every single social outing ive ever gone to in my life, its the same ****ing thing!! everyone, every single person bonds with others and I dont!!! same thing for my whole life!!! And ive been to alot!!

so heres some things ive learned from this:

Things that dont matter and arent worth spit!!
Money
being in shape
being healthy
helping people
caring for others
good looks
good home
good job
good car
being funny
being confident
obeying the law
feeding the hungry
being polite
complimenting others
being faithful and commited
getting people gifts
providing entertainment for people
facing your fears
being motivated

Things that matter
being able to make insulting conversation in the attempt to hurt the other persons feelings non-stop
....thats it!

and heres the proper procedure for forming close friendships with people:

Proper procedure for forming close friendships with others
meet them
insult them
mock all the issues they're senesitive about
brutally insult every flaw they have
beat the crap outta them
vandalize their valued possessions and have a good laugh about it
shoot them with a shotgun

after all that, if they're still your friend, you know you've gotta true friend!

too bad I got a conscience so i be kind, caring and complimentary which causes people to barf in disgust and avoid me like the plague.

Prakas · 11-03-2009, 04:42 AM

Ok...well I recommend you stop beating people up and shooting them for a start, you probally want your friend alive

Sounds like you want to be honest in an attempt to start off a friendship which makes alot of sense, but by starting it off with an insult probally isn't the way to go. I have low self esteem, if you were to start saying something negative at me, I'd turn my head and walk away. Wouldn't bother putting up a fight. It can be on the other spectrum, and you may say it to someone cocky, and you'll end up in a fist fight.

Be honest, but being nice also counts

Hot Chocolate · 11-03-2009, 06:02 AM

Sometimes I think you are trying too hard.

bwidger85 · 11-03-2009, 07:13 AM

Sometimes it's just a matter of interests.

11-03-2009, 04:28 AM	#1 (permalink)
_AJ_ Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada Posts: 734	Why wont anyone bond with me :( I swear to god, every single social outing ive ever gone to in my life, its the same **ing thing!! everyone, every single person bonds with others and I dont!!! same thing for my whole life!!! And ive been to alot!! so heres some things ive learned from this: Things that dont matter and arent worth spit!! Money being in shape being healthy helping people caring for others good looks good home good job good car being funny being confident obeying the law feeding the hungry being polite complimenting others being faithful and commited getting people gifts providing entertainment for people facing your fears being motivated Things that matter being able to make insulting conversation in the attempt to hurt the other persons feelings non-stop ....thats it! and heres the proper procedure for forming close friendships with people: Proper procedure for forming close friendships with others meet them insult them mock all the issues they're senesitive about brutally insult every flaw they have beat the crap outta them vandalize their valued possessions and have a good laugh about it shoot them with a shotgun after all that, if they're still your friend, you know you've gotta true friend! too bad I got a conscience so i be kind, caring and complimentary which causes people to barf in disgust and avoid me like the plague. __________________ Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the decision to act in spite of it**.

11-03-2009, 06:02 AM	#3 (permalink)
Hot Chocolate Status: Colourful Spongy Cake! Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: S.E.A Posts: 1,121	Sometimes I think you are trying too hard. __________________ Living is easy with eyes closed Misunderstanding all you see It's getting hard to be someone But it all works out It doesn't matter much to me Let me take you down 'Cause i'm going to strawberry fields...

11-03-2009, 07:13 AM	#4 (permalink)
bwidger85 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 708	Sometimes it's just a matter of interests. __________________ Album #3 (download my complete third album as it is right now!)

11-03-2009, 04:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
Prakas Status: Failure - Life Sucks Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Delaware Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 434	Ok...well I recommend you stop beating people up and shooting them for a start, you probally want your friend alive Sounds like you want to be honest in an attempt to start off a friendship which makes alot of sense, but by starting it off with an insult probally isn't the way to go. I have low self esteem, if you were to start saying something negative at me, I'd turn my head and walk away. Wouldn't bother putting up a fight. It can be on the other spectrum, and you may say it to someone cocky, and you'll end up in a fist fight. Be honest, but being nice also counts