I know this title sounds over dramatic, but every time I change my eating habits, she tells me that I should keep eating the way I was before. I do know that she likes that I am fat because she feels that this will cause me to never have male attention and I wont end up pregnant or something. She told me that she doesn't want me to make the same mistakes as she did when she had me at an unplanned time. I assured her that I would not get pregnant, but she is really scared that I might. I guess because I am in college and she feels that there is more chances or something.
When this guy asked me out a few weeks ago, she went bananas! She hates when I talk to guys. She hates sex and thinks that it is the worst thing ever invented. I cant talk to her about sex because she says that sex is a very bad thing for women. Its really weird.
Everytime I try to take control over my weight, she tries to sabotage me. It sucks because I would like to be successful in my weightloss. Its like if I stay fat, she doesnt have to worry about me leaving her or getting married and leaving her alone. This is the ways she acts.
I am a grown woman and I have to live at home because I am a student. I cant date either. Like, if I go out with guys, I cant tell her about it because she would literally freak out and we end up arguing. She thinks dating men is a bad thing and that men are going to do something terrible to me.
What can I do about this?