10-18-2010, 11:00 PM
Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jun 2010
I've done the "sit in a car while everyone is inside partying" thing a few times. I stopped accepting invitations, and stopped allowing myself to be in a situation where I couldn't say no to attending the party.
It sucks...I wish I had something more positive to say.
You gotta think though, maybe they didn't see you being quiet as the big deal that you did.
I say that because most people wouldn't make a comment like that guy made to you, if they thought of it in a mean type of way. When people think badly about someone else, they generally talk about it when they aren't around, not to their face...so maybe he was just trying to get you to talk through responding to that comment, and wasn't exactly trying to make fun of you.
I could make you scared, if you want me to.
I'm not prepared, but if I have to.
I said, I can make you scared.
It's kind of what I do.
If you're prepared, here's what I propose to do...