Social Anxiety Support

VIncymon · 11-01-2009, 02:18 PM

I .. uh ... hm ..uhm...

I am dedicated to the things and people I care about. I wanted to learn to play guitar, so i saved up, and when I was 16 bought an acoustic, and in these two years I've pushed myself to become competent enough that I play regularly at my church now. I've spent so much time on this that many people who did music 'formally' are impressed at my progress.

My only regret is that I couldn't afford it earlier. If I was playing since I was 12, I would have a band by now. .. sigh..

IllusionOfHappiness · 11-01-2009, 02:25 PM

I have hope for the future.

Drella · 11-01-2009, 02:41 PM

- I'm fairly sympathetic to people's problems.
- I have an impeccable bull**** radar.
- I'm very strong and could easily take Evander Holyfield.
- I really don't care anymore.
- Outstanding rack.

I may actually be too fantastic. This is my only downfall.

Girl_Loner · 11-01-2009, 03:08 PM

^haha nice list.

I guess I like that children and animals seem to love me.

When I go to visit people pets that don't even let their owners near them jump on my lap, and kids seem to think I'm a jungle gym.

rhymsey · 11-01-2009, 03:12 PM

well sometimes its difficult for me to be positive... but i've been told by many people that i have amazing eyes. And I guess I'm pretty happy with my ability to appreciate beauty. can't think of anything else

moxosis · 11-01-2009, 03:18 PM

I like my body type, I was one of the best in high jumping when I was younger.

gold132 · 11-01-2009, 03:49 PM

Well i've been told i'm quite good looking (9.4 on HotorNot.com, not to brag)

I think i'm funny too when i want to be

Iced Soul · 11-01-2009, 04:34 PM

Can I have a list? har har har

1. Personality
2. My mind
3. My eyes
4. My hair
5. My singing voice, not my speaking voice
6. My sense of humor
7. My sense of style
8. My nails. I never have to go to the salon for them, they are alwys so beautiful, to me.
9. How I act when my SA isn't bugging me.
10. My lips
11. My beauty mark
12. My eyebrows
13. My height
14. My passion
15. My ability to like pretty much anyone
16. My loyalty
17. My manners

That's all I can think of for now. More than I thought it would be, actually.

toffee · 11-01-2009, 04:42 PM

I can't say anything positive about my appearance, it makes me miserable more than anything else does.. my personality... i am dull, i'm a girl of very few words...but i think that my heart is in the right place.. i would never intend to hurt anyone, i'm loyal and trustworthy... people don't seem to see these things though.

yellowpaper · 11-01-2009, 04:45 PM

I'm very accepting of other people's failures/mistakes/problems.

senrab · 11-06-2009, 08:48 PM

I'm very intelligent.

Sabrina · 11-06-2009, 08:55 PM

My smile
My ability to see the beauty in anything and anybody
My compassion
My heart
My sweet, affable nature
My hair

Sunshine009 · 11-06-2009, 08:55 PM

I like to learn new things. I like that I am thankful for things also.

MavenMI6Agent009 · 11-06-2009, 09:04 PM

Im articulate and like to look at the inner nature of things

Moody99 · 11-06-2009, 09:29 PM

My hair it's very thick, my smile my unique style i can pick up on some peoples games and bs a mile away,i like the fact i'm a quiet and shy a nice person...to everyone but, people tend to underestimate me i love to shock people by letting my bad side out to the bad people that have put me down....i get them all back with unkind words right back...i keep it real i'm laid-back, cool and mellow, speak my mind when i feel like it...sensitive to other peoples needs,helpful...can be a prankester...love to act silly laugh dance,and being myself.

quiet0lady · 11-06-2009, 09:34 PM

Hmmm... I like that I have a big heart and am kind, and no matter how rude someone may be to me it's not in my nature to be rude back. I also like my sense of humor (although sometimes it comes out at very inappropriate times), and that I'm generally a happy person. It's easier for me to see the positive in most situations than the negative. I also like that I always try to do my best, I don't give up easily. With that being said, most importantly, I have pretty killer feet

hehe

Lovesick Loner · 11-06-2009, 10:48 PM

For the people who really know me well, I'm very caring, loyal, affectionate, kind-hearted, empathetic, open-minded, and non-judgmental. I like having those qualities. Wish I got to use them more.

malone · 11-06-2009, 11:06 PM

I think I'm smart and have an okay face. Though that doesn't do me much use because it's always hidden away in books or at home.

Pialicious88 · 11-07-2009, 04:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Emptyheart

Instead of always thinking about the negative things we think
About ourselves..name something you really like about ur self.

=D

how is this "frustration" related

mind_games · 11-07-2009, 05:09 AM

I like my mind, as ****ed up as it maybe, with all its quirks and inefficient thought processes.

11-01-2009, 03:12 PM	#45 (permalink)
rhymsey Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: MN Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 19	well sometimes its difficult for me to be positive... but i've been told by many people that i have amazing eyes. And I guess I'm pretty happy with my ability to appreciate beauty. can't think of anything else __________________ While we are born with curiosity and wonder and our early years full of the adventure they bring, I know such inherent joys are often lost. I also know that, being deep within us, their latent glow can be fanned to flame again by awareness and an open mind- Sigurd F. Olson

11-01-2009, 03:18 PM	#46 (permalink)
moxosis Status: Lone Wolf Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: ''' Gender: Male Posts: 136	I like my body type, I was one of the best in high jumping when I was younger. __________________

11-01-2009, 04:34 PM	#48 (permalink)
Iced Soul Status: Dancing on Rainbows Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Calilalaland Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 1,775	Can I have a list? har har har 1. Personality 2. My mind 3. My eyes 4. My hair 5. My singing voice, not my speaking voice 6. My sense of humor 7. My sense of style 8. My nails. I never have to go to the salon for them, they are alwys so beautiful, to me. 9. How I act when my SA isn't bugging me. 10. My lips 11. My beauty mark 12. My eyebrows 13. My height 14. My passion 15. My ability to like pretty much anyone 16. My loyalty 17. My manners That's all I can think of for now. More than I thought it would be, actually. __________________ I scraped my knees while I was praying And found a demon in my safest haven. Seems like, it's getting harder to believe in anything Than just to get lost in all my selfish thoughts. I wanna know what it'd be like To find perfection in my pride To see nothing in the light Just turn it off In all my spite, in all my spite, I'll turn it off. - Turn It Off - Paramore http://twitter.com/MissEerie

11-01-2009, 04:42 PM	#49 (permalink)
toffee Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 17 Posts: 181	I can't say anything positive about my appearance, it makes me miserable more than anything else does.. my personality... i am dull, i'm a girl of very few words...but i think that my heart is in the right place.. i would never intend to hurt anyone, i'm loyal and trustworthy... people don't seem to see these things though. __________________ Everywhere i look, you're all i see.. just a fading ****ing reminder of who i used to be.

11-01-2009, 04:45 PM	#50 (permalink)
yellowpaper Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 696	I'm very accepting of other people's failures/mistakes/problems. __________________ You're beautiful In an asymmetric kind of way Your face is not a cliche And you complicate In a helpful kind of messed up way But you have good intentions

11-01-2009, 02:18 PM	#41 (permalink)
VIncymon Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Gender: Male Posts: 741	I .. uh ... hm ..uhm... I am dedicated to the things and people I care about. I wanted to learn to play guitar, so i saved up, and when I was 16 bought an acoustic, and in these two years I've pushed myself to become competent enough that I play regularly at my church now. I've spent so much time on this that many people who did music 'formally' are impressed at my progress. My only regret is that I couldn't afford it earlier. If I was playing since I was 12, I would have a band by now. .. sigh..

11-01-2009, 02:25 PM	#42 (permalink)
IllusionOfHappiness Status: Custom User Title Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NS, Canada Gender: Female Age: 19 Posts: 7,924	I have hope for the future.

11-01-2009, 02:41 PM	#43 (permalink)
Drella Status: Magnanimous carcinoma Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Lodged in Aaron Eckhart's chin cleft. Gender: Female Posts: 9,114	- I'm fairly sympathetic to people's problems. - I have an impeccable bull**** radar. - I'm very strong and could easily take Evander Holyfield. - I really don't care anymore. - Outstanding rack. I may actually be too fantastic. This is my only downfall.

11-01-2009, 03:08 PM	#44 (permalink)
Girl_Loner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cardboard Box Gender: Female Posts: 524	^haha nice list. I guess I like that children and animals seem to love me. When I go to visit people pets that don't even let their owners near them jump on my lap, and kids seem to think I'm a jungle gym.

11-01-2009, 03:49 PM	#47 (permalink)
gold132 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 154	Well i've been told i'm quite good looking (9.4 on HotorNot.com, not to brag) I think i'm funny too when i want to be

11-06-2009, 08:48 PM	#51 (permalink)
senrab Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Gender: Female Age: 28 Posts: 58	I'm very intelligent.

11-06-2009, 08:55 PM	#52 (permalink)
Sabrina Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 164	My smile My ability to see the beauty in anything and anybody My compassion My heart My sweet, affable nature My hair

11-06-2009, 08:55 PM	#53 (permalink)
Sunshine009 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Gender: Female Posts: 1,643	I like to learn new things. I like that I am thankful for things also. __________________ "God grant me the serentity to accept the things I cannot change, to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference" - serenity prayer

11-06-2009, 09:04 PM	#54 (permalink)
MavenMI6Agent009 Status: Cook Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: EL Crapo, Tx Gender: Male Posts: 13,652	Im articulate and like to look at the inner nature of things __________________ "The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares." (Henri Nouwen) -------------------------------------------------------

11-06-2009, 09:29 PM	#55 (permalink)
Moody99 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Chi-Town Gender: Female Posts: 124	My hair it's very thick, my smile my unique style i can pick up on some peoples games and bs a mile away,i like the fact i'm a quiet and shy a nice person...to everyone but, people tend to underestimate me i love to shock people by letting my bad side out to the bad people that have put me down....i get them all back with unkind words right back...i keep it real i'm laid-back, cool and mellow, speak my mind when i feel like it...sensitive to other peoples needs,helpful...can be a prankester...love to act silly laugh dance,and being myself.

11-06-2009, 09:34 PM	#56 (permalink)
quiet0lady Status: Hopeful Join Date: Sep 2009 Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 41	Hmmm... I like that I have a big heart and am kind, and no matter how rude someone may be to me it's not in my nature to be rude back. I also like my sense of humor (although sometimes it comes out at very inappropriate times), and that I'm generally a happy person. It's easier for me to see the positive in most situations than the negative. I also like that I always try to do my best, I don't give up easily. With that being said, most importantly, I have pretty killer feet hehe

11-06-2009, 10:48 PM	#57 (permalink)
Lovesick Loner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 164	For the people who really know me well, I'm very caring, loyal, affectionate, kind-hearted, empathetic, open-minded, and non-judgmental. I like having those qualities. Wish I got to use them more. __________________ "Every day is Like Sunday, Every day is silent and gray" - Morrissey

11-06-2009, 11:06 PM	#58 (permalink)
malone Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Female Posts: 60	I think I'm smart and have an okay face. Though that doesn't do me much use because it's always hidden away in books or at home.

11-07-2009, 05:09 AM	#60 (permalink)
mind_games Status: dances, like a fridge Join Date: Nov 2008 Age: 23 Posts: 1,570	I like my mind, as ****ed up as it maybe, with all its quirks and inefficient thought processes. __________________ "this is not me, this is me reacting to your perception of me"