Originally Posted by organicwildroot
Yeah, possibly a coincidence but definitely watch your back. I don't know, are you disappointed that he might possibly be stalking you? Next time he is following you just stop and see if he passes you and then follow him. Or if you have the courage then stop and talk to him. Introduce yourself and tell him that you've seen him around alot, ask him if he wants to go get a cup of coffee and see what kind of guy he is. You might end up liking him alot.
Ewww...no, I'm not disappointed that he didn't follow me-maybe stalking was a strong word, but this guy-there's just something not right about it....i mean, this was my first quarter at the college, never spoke to the guy before.........and I didn't see him after that last time.......
And ewww, no
I am not gonna introduce myself and ask him out for a cup of freaking coffee!-I thought he was cute, but I'm not that interested in him otherwise
As for a coincidence, that's what I thought at first-actually I didn't even think of it as a coincidence, because in the first place, I didn't think anything
of it at all......and when I was thinking back on all this, I thought about the times that I've coincidently run into/by the same person over and over, and how I hoped they didn't think I was some stalker-y weirdo, so that made me think, hey, that that's what might be going on with this guy-just some coincidence, but all the times that I saw him, he saw me first
, and then just happened to need to take the same path or go to the same place
that I did-if it was a coincidence, then we would just individually end up
at the same time by chance
if you guys were in my shoes, I guarantee
you guys would be creeped out and be thinking twice about everything-
-like when you leave the college building, there is a stop right outside to wait for the shuttle bus and if he really wanted to walk to his dorm building, he could've walked the other way which would've been like a 20minute walk instead of taking the path that I took which added about 10min to his trip
-he sat at the computer facing the room that I was taking my test in, instead of taking a seat at one of the other 10computers that were near him......
......................so maybe not stalking but I'm not really buying the coincidence