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So my friend called me a psycho

I havent spoke to or seen a friend of mine since Jan 09, and I called and talked to her today, she didnt want to talk, just said I was a psycho and I belonged in a mental institution. I feel really bad now. I never did anything wrong, i don't know why she seems to think i'm crazy, i hate my life
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I havent spoke to or seen a friend of mine since Jan 09, and I called and talked to her today, she didnt want to talk, just said I was a psycho and I belonged in a mental institution. I feel really bad now. I never did anything wrong, i don't know why she seems to think i'm crazy, i hate my life
She obviously wasn't a true friend. If she really cared about you she would not call you a psycho.

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I havent spoke to or seen a friend of mine since Jan 09, and I called and talked to her today, she didnt want to talk, just said I was a psycho and I belonged in a mental institution. I feel really bad now. I never did anything wrong, i don't know why she seems to think i'm crazy, i hate my life
Holy Hell, what a b****!

Please don't feel bad.
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Sounds like she's a very rude, mean person. And I'd slap her if i could.

She doesn't sound friend material to me. You went a year without her, you don't need her. I would'nt feel bad if i were you, my response would probably be... "Well a Happy %#!&@ New Year to you too!!!"
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Whose been messin with you myhalo123? I'll slap em silly. Please limit the list to your top 3 tho. Too much slappin begins to hurt my hands.
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If someone treats you that way again, you should bond with your "inner psycho" and tell them where to go. A few colorful epithets thrown in might be a nice touch. After all, what have you got to lose?

Sorry to hear your this "friend" was such a ***** to you.
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Why the sudden urge to talk to her after a year of not seeing or hearing from her?
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there wasn't really an urge to talk to her, i found her number in my address book and thought to myself "gee, havent heard from her in a while, ill call and see what she's been up to and how life is going"
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What caused you two to lose touch with each other?
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She moved a few years ago to a different state.
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So umm, its just hard to imagine a normal person randomly calling another person a psycho and that they should be in an institute. If she did she's .. weird, to say the least. What were you talking about right before she said that to you?
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Wow I'm sorry. What prompted her to say that, was it in relation to your sa? She wasn't joking? I don't fully understand. It's not the nicest feeling when people you like let you down.
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Doesn't sound like a friend to me.
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You should have told her she went from 50th to 1st place on your list before hanging up.
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lack of understanding & frustration unfortunately often leads to cruelty
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she probably was flattering herself thinkig you're calling her cause ur romantically interested in her even after she moved to another state. i've heard girls do that before and it's usually a reflection of the person saying it and not you. basically, she's got issues.
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she probably was flattering herself thinkig you're calling her cause ur romantically interested in her even after she moved to another state. i've heard girls do that before and it's usually a reflection of the person saying it and not you. basically, she's got issues.

that is exactly what i was thinking too
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what a ***** your better off without her friendship she sounds like the psycho!

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That's a really weird thing to say to someone, sounds like she has some issues, or is just a *****. I know comments like that hurt, even when they're that ridiculous and meaningless, but let it go. She's not worth worrying about.
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Was there any more context to this exchange or did she just call you psycho out of the blue as soon as you called and hung up..?
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