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Old 10-26-2010, 01:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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Default Question for the men: Do you have a big butt?

A lot of what has contributed to my SA is the size of my butt. Now I'm not trying to be silly or anything. but it's always something that I've been self conscious about. I was teased about it.
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Old 10-26-2010, 02:07 PM   #2 (permalink)
 
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Only time anyone's ever made a comment about my buttocks was some girl saying it was too small. ****ing women.
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Old 10-26-2010, 02:44 PM   #3 (permalink)
 
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Hmm, I always heard women saying every guy's butt wasn't big enough. I've never heard a woman say a guy's butt is too big.
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Most times when people make fun it's because they are jeAlous or envious deep down. Jocks make fun of smart kids and call them poindexter because the jocks know they'll never be smart so they want to take out aggression. The people that made fun of you probably had parents with small butts and it caused contention in the household and an unhappy childhood. Now that unhappy person sees you and lashes out. Or maybe his dad had a big, proud butt and he realizes he'll never measure up to his old man. Rather than ridicule his dad (could be dangerous), he belittles you to feel better. If things get too out of hand, you could move to a culture that knows how to appreciate big butts (I'm guessing you are white, so if you are don't call me racist. I'm white too - it was just a lucky guess)
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I'm going to have to say butt size doesn't matter. No one ever said anything about my butt and I have SA.
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Unfortunately yes I do. Its annoying as hell.
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I have a massive butt! I hate it cos I'm skinny otherwise so it really stands out. It's cos I've got wide hips. It makes me miserable and self conscious. I've been meaning to get fit and bulk up my upper body to even it out but haven't gotten around to it yet!!
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Zits, pale skin and kyphosis. But not a big butt. I knew another kid in school who had the big butt - he got a nickname - BUTT. I got some others - paleface, beakface, zitface etc.
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I got a little junk. Just enough.
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Yeah, i have a very strange body for a male. I'm 150 pounds and 6'2, and my ribs / stomach are very skinny, but i have a large chest (not fat, just big) and very large hips and butt. It's like I have the proportions of a female...
I have big arms and legs too, so it kind of evens out, but my head is a bit small

my sister says she is jealous that my butt is bigger than hers, but i don't know if that's a good thing or not..

if you're the kind of guy who works out all the time and you have a ton of muscles, it probably looks good, but if you're skinny like me, it just looks way bigger than everything else.
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If it's that disturbing, you can always save up for a butt reduction. If you can, sometimes its better to just take a short cut.
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Butt reduction? Are you serious right now?


Anyways, I don't have a big butt but I used to have a decent butt and I actually got compliments from women for it. I remember one time me and a friend went to the junior talent show and we where in line and there was 4 girls and a mom behind me. They made various comments about my butt thinking I couldn't hear them and one of them even grabbed my butt nonchalantly. I was both too nervous and too egoistic to do anything about it. I couldn't even turn to see what they looked like, I wish I had known who they where.

In general, losing weight, doing cardio, and lifting weights will help reduce fat and help tighten up excess fat. You could try that, but also remember that many women like a good butt on a guy so don't do anything crazy like the poster above me said.
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Sorry. No, although having one would be a good thing In my case.
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Yep. Are you?
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when i was younger someone said i had a big butt, guess it was because i was chubby not fat.
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Your advice is ridiculously stupid........I mean really it's flat out ludicrous. Butt reduction?? Hey, I am just calling them how I see them.
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I have squat butt. Girls seem to love it.....well at least they used to before I put myself into isolation.
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Well, some like big butts and they cannot lie.

I have a big butt, hips - athletic, dontcha know. My legs are big, too. I have to buy jeans with a waist of 2-3 inches larger than my size due to my legs. Normal sizes will make me feel like the Incredible Hulk - rip tear when I kneel.

Girls have liked my butt - publicly and in secret.
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Terrible mental images.....runs to dunk my head in soapy water.
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Old 10-30-2010, 11:28 PM   #20 (permalink)
 
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I think mine is bigger because of my legs. I've been told it's 'compact' but I think it's just another way of saying it's kind of stocky
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