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Old 11-13-2010, 05:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
 
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I didn't see or speak to him much for months, and now my brother has started dealing he seems to be calling me to hang out more, but usually he calls my brother first to try and pick up and if my brother can't get to him he calls me to ask if I wanna come round, but also to bring an 8th with me. Not sure how much is me being paranoid because it is kinda nice to see him again, but im not sure from his point of view how much he wants some weed and then feels kinda obligated to hang out with me for a bit, I feel like I bore him a bit compared with his other stoner druggy type friends
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Old 11-13-2010, 07:53 AM   #2 (permalink)
 
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What is his reaction if you 'forget' to bring the weed?
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Old 11-13-2010, 08:01 AM   #3 (permalink)
 
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I have had this issue before, your probably just a bit paranoid, just see how he treats you when you dont bring weed and see his reaction if your just chilling without getting high... at least your brothers getting money outta him
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Old 11-13-2010, 08:01 AM   #4 (permalink)
 
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When he asks you to bring weed, ask him if he's got the money for it.
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does he actually pay for it when you bring it round???
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Hey man, could I have your brother's number?




But yeah, I've been in a similar situation before. Except it was more a fairly close friend who seemed to enjoy never paying for the bud. So we just stopped calling him when we were smoking up. But yeah, next time he calls, tell him you're up for meeting up but you're brother's dry at the moment so you can't bring any draw, see what he says. If he avoids it, ignore the prick. And get your brother to spray his weed next time he wants to pick up.
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Cut off some pubic hair and stick it in the bag.
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Sounds like he wants to pick up mostly. Life is too short to worry about that kind of bull****, it's just weed. If you are hanging out and you are thinking "man is this guy using me?" neither of you would have fun. But if you look at it like, yeah, this dude wants to get high, I enjoy getting high too, your bro is doing him a favor, you are helping your bro out. Everyone's happy.

But man, if you don't enjoy his company, don't hang out with him. If you think he's only there to pick up and you don't like it, don't hang out with him and let your brother deal with him. I found myself that I used to worry about this ****, it made me angry and made me unhappy. It's not to say to let people use you, but be relaxed about it.
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Say that you're out of weed and ask if he still wants to chill. To be honest I think he just wants the weed. It sucks but there are people who are just *******s like that. Don't take it too personally, those types of people always choose drugs over their friends and they'll get what's coming to them.
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does he actually pay for it when you bring it round???
Yeah he pays, and then I give the money to my brother later, kinda like the middle man lol.

My brothers going to australia in january for a few months so it will be interesting to see what happens then once I cant bring weed with me
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haha lol, to be honest im not sure if he would even notice, he tends to loose a lot of awareness when he's high lol
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i used to have friends who were like my homies and sht but still wouldnt come down on some days if "there isnt much weed" because it would be pointless to them to walk all that way for a J... so i dont know some people need something like weed to see a point to hanging out, which makes u think sometimes... but i bet its nothing.. i overthought it.. you might be too..cuz we have somethin in common lol. but if your a reasonable cool guy why would anyone use you for something
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