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Old 04-02-2009, 04:27 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I'm trying to improve but in the meantime why do I have to suffer loneliness until I reach perfection?
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Old 04-02-2009, 08:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
 
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taking things to seriously was one of my biggest problems and probably had the worst effect on me. I remember falling off my bike back in elementary school, when I still had the nerve to go out, and some dude was driving by and stopped to ask if I was alright, I stood there and looked at him and then hurried off because in school they really emphasized the importants of not talking to strangers, I took it further than I should have and that's only one situation out of many, but seriousness really messed up my life.
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"Why so serious?" As the Joker would say...

But yes, people tell me that I seem boring all the time. Not in a disrespectful way or anything, usually just in a casual, sorta teasing manner, to which I sarcastically reply, "I know, right?" And then they kinda laugh, and I kinda sorta try to break out a little smile, at which point they move on in whatever they were doing before they felt the urge to speak to me or just decide to hold a little small talk. That's usually how it always goes.
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Those three apply to me. The inexperience bit is the worst.
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all 3 = me.
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I know i'm boring, i know i'm serious but why do people think that telling me this will change me? I mean if i've put up with it this long why cant they? This is who i am! The moment people tell me this i become more serious and more boring and cant get away from them quick enough.
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i think i can relate to what you said.
i feel like i want to meet new people, make friends etc. but not as the person i am now. i feel like i need to change before i'm worthy of having friends.
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I can relate to those three. My friend told me I was boring back in jr. high and that killed it, I was so sad afterwards but got over it and we've been good friends since.
I actually envy those people that seem to be open and loose all the time, because they're able to have fun and for me, I can't seem to loosen up like them and really enjoy what I should be enjoying. I guess people have different ways of loosening up though... yet I still feel 'rigid'
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