Social Anxiety Support

Aries33 · 11-26-2011, 08:10 AM

This really bother's me i know some of you may be a little private about this but im so frustrated,its been too long not that i want to go out and sleep with some hooker but should i be worrying so much about it, my last girlfriend was 6 years ago and i have to say i haven't been with anyone since then,

im 33 and can't even get laid

afraid2goinpublic · 11-26-2011, 09:52 AM

Hmmm, I think it is absolutely normal to wonder about that.. 6 yrs is a long time, but do you feel deprived?? or is it that society tells you it is to long??

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Originally Posted by Aries33

This really bother's me i know some of you may be a little private about this but im so frustrated,its been too long not that i want to go out and sleep with some hooker but should i be worrying so much about it, my last girlfriend was 6 years ago and i have to say i haven't been with anyone since then,

im 33 and can't even get laid

falling down · 11-26-2011, 09:58 AM

you think that's a long time?

.....

Toeter · 11-26-2011, 11:02 AM

not as long as a lifetime.. it could've been worse

humourless · 11-26-2011, 11:03 AM

The thinking about it makes it worse than the actual fact.

Example...are you comparing yourself to others who are "getting it"?

Syndacus · 11-26-2011, 11:11 AM

I was talking to my friend one day and he asked me how long I can go without sex, and I told him several months. He said he can't go without sex for more than 3 days. I hope one day he gets an STD, and his penis falls off.

Jenikyula gone mad · 11-26-2011, 11:11 AM

Yeah. Sigh. It sucks. What's so difficult about finding someone to be intimate with? People do it all the time. Why is it so difficult for us?

Jenikyula gone mad · 11-26-2011, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Syndacus

I was talking to my friend one day and he asked me how long I can go without sex, and I told him several months. He said he can't go without sex for more than 3 days. I hope one day he gets an STD, and his penis falls off.

The idea that someone can't go long without having sex is sort of hilarious. What happens to your friend after 3 days? Does he shrivel up and die?

DMOIK · 11-26-2011, 11:15 AM

I have only had sex once. An I didn't enjoy it.

She was about the same height as me (5' 9") but she was over 200lbs and I got her naked in the shower but when I saw her naked and she tried to kiss me I wanted OUT.

I litterally cringed every time she kissed me, I never kissed her. As I was nowhere near "ready" I tried to make that an excuse to just not do it.
She insisted we go through with it. I reluctantly and never-looking-at-her did it and it was terrible.

Sad thing is a year earlier I was alone in a REALLY sexy girl's room and I got so anxious I couldn't get it up.
In the morning I was really excited to ... try again. But it was very clear that it wasn't going to happen.

It has been somewhere around 2 years since I lost my virginity, I didn't even write down the date.

On the upside, when I am not over-thinking it or making bad descisions about taking ~substances~ I am very comfortable talking to groups of girls up to 10, it is the mixed company that throws me off.

I've been procrastinating about "going out" for the last .... 2 months or so though.

Syndacus · 11-26-2011, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Jenikyula gone mad

The idea that someone can't go long without having sex is sort of hilarious. What happens to your friend after 3 days? Does he shrivel up and die?

Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...

Pialicious88 · 11-26-2011, 11:20 AM

i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread

laura024 · 11-26-2011, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Syndacus

Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...

Has he ever been introduced to a condom?

Jenikyula gone mad · 11-26-2011, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Syndacus

Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...

O_O That's not cool. On the other hand, he's a biological success, many times over. You go, girl.

Syndacus · 11-26-2011, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by laura024

Has he ever been introduced to a condom?

He says he never liked the feel of them, and has this stupid mindset that condoms are for wussies.

norad · 11-26-2011, 11:36 AM

@ aries

At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?

falling down · 11-26-2011, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by norad

@ aries

At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?

nemesis1 · 11-26-2011, 11:48 AM

Whats really annoying is when people start moaning that they havent had sex in a few weeks. Especially when they know you havent been laid in years...

lazy · 11-26-2011, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by norad

@ aries

At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?

all joking aside maybe it will help with the prematures ??

falling down · 11-26-2011, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Pialicious88

i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread

Especially the men with vaginas.

GunnyHighway · 11-26-2011, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Pialicious88

i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread

Yup.

11-26-2011, 08:10 AM	#1 (permalink)
Aries33 Status: Feeling good Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Australia Gender: Male Posts: 605	I haven't had sex in a long time This really bother's me i know some of you may be a little private about this but im so frustrated,its been too long not that i want to go out and sleep with some hooker but should i be worrying so much about it, my last girlfriend was 6 years ago and i have to say i haven't been with anyone since then, im 33 and can't even get laid __________________ I know it seem hard sometimes but uhh Remember one thing "Through every dark night, there's a bright day after that ,So no matter how hard it get, stick your chest out, Keep your head up, and handle it" - Tupac Shakur -

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Jenikyula gone mad Status: black celebration Join Date: Nov 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 811	Yeah. Sigh. It sucks. What's so difficult about finding someone to be intimate with? People do it all the time. Why is it so difficult for us? __________________ 10,000 steps a day! Go outside, experience living, be active, smile at the sun, be happy! Cheers.

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falling down Status: Permanently Banned Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: free health care palace Gender: Male Posts: 3,785	you think that's a long time? .....

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humourless Status: Permanently Banned Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: australia Gender: Male Age: 73 Posts: 1,630	The thinking about it makes it worse than the actual fact. Example...are you comparing yourself to others who are "getting it"?

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Syndacus Status: User Requested Permanent Ban Join Date: Aug 2011 Age: 29 Posts: 3,284	I was talking to my friend one day and he asked me how long I can go without sex, and I told him several months. He said he can't go without sex for more than 3 days. I hope one day he gets an STD, and his penis falls off.

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DMOIK Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 35	I have only had sex once. An I didn't enjoy it. She was about the same height as me (5' 9") but she was over 200lbs and I got her naked in the shower but when I saw her naked and she tried to kiss me I wanted OUT. I litterally cringed every time she kissed me, I never kissed her. As I was nowhere near "ready" I tried to make that an excuse to just not do it. She insisted we go through with it. I reluctantly and never-looking-at-her did it and it was terrible. Sad thing is a year earlier I was alone in a REALLY sexy girl's room and I got so anxious I couldn't get it up. In the morning I was really excited to ... try again. But it was very clear that it wasn't going to happen. It has been somewhere around 2 years since I lost my virginity, I didn't even write down the date. On the upside, when I am not over-thinking it or making bad descisions about taking ~substances~ I am very comfortable talking to groups of girls up to 10, it is the mixed company that throws me off. I've been procrastinating about "going out" for the last .... 2 months or so though.

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Pialicious88 Status: Permanently Banned Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Outer space Gender: Female Posts: 1,458	i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread

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norad Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 505	@ aries At least you've had sex. I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?

11-26-2011, 11:48 AM	#17 (permalink)
nemesis1 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Gender: Male Posts: 2,282	Whats really annoying is when people start moaning that they havent had sex in a few weeks. Especially when they know you havent been laid in years...