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Lightbulb I haven't had sex in a long time

This really bother's me i know some of you may be a little private about this but im so frustrated,its been too long not that i want to go out and sleep with some hooker but should i be worrying so much about it, my last girlfriend was 6 years ago and i have to say i haven't been with anyone since then, im 33 and can't even get laid

I know it seem hard sometimes but uhh
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Hmmm, I think it is absolutely normal to wonder about that.. 6 yrs is a long time, but do you feel deprived?? or is it that society tells you it is to long??



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This really bother's me i know some of you may be a little private about this but im so frustrated,its been too long not that i want to go out and sleep with some hooker but should i be worrying so much about it, my last girlfriend was 6 years ago and i have to say i haven't been with anyone since then, im 33 and can't even get laid

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you think that's a long time?

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not as long as a lifetime.. it could've been worse
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The thinking about it makes it worse than the actual fact.

Example...are you comparing yourself to others who are "getting it"?
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I was talking to my friend one day and he asked me how long I can go without sex, and I told him several months. He said he can't go without sex for more than 3 days. I hope one day he gets an STD, and his penis falls off.
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Yeah. Sigh. It sucks. What's so difficult about finding someone to be intimate with? People do it all the time. Why is it so difficult for us?

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I was talking to my friend one day and he asked me how long I can go without sex, and I told him several months. He said he can't go without sex for more than 3 days. I hope one day he gets an STD, and his penis falls off.
The idea that someone can't go long without having sex is sort of hilarious. What happens to your friend after 3 days? Does he shrivel up and die?

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I have only had sex once. An I didn't enjoy it.

She was about the same height as me (5' 9") but she was over 200lbs and I got her naked in the shower but when I saw her naked and she tried to kiss me I wanted OUT.

I litterally cringed every time she kissed me, I never kissed her. As I was nowhere near "ready" I tried to make that an excuse to just not do it.
She insisted we go through with it. I reluctantly and never-looking-at-her did it and it was terrible.

Sad thing is a year earlier I was alone in a REALLY sexy girl's room and I got so anxious I couldn't get it up.
In the morning I was really excited to ... try again. But it was very clear that it wasn't going to happen.

It has been somewhere around 2 years since I lost my virginity, I didn't even write down the date.

On the upside, when I am not over-thinking it or making bad descisions about taking ~substances~ I am very comfortable talking to groups of girls up to 10, it is the mixed company that throws me off.

I've been procrastinating about "going out" for the last .... 2 months or so though.
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The idea that someone can't go long without having sex is sort of hilarious. What happens to your friend after 3 days? Does he shrivel up and die?
Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...
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i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread
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Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...
Has he ever been introduced to a condom?


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Dude gets ****in scary after 3 days. He becomes what I dub, a sexual harassment panda. He'll screw anyone after 3 days. He has fathered 5 kids, from 4 different women so far...
O_O That's not cool. On the other hand, he's a biological success, many times over. You go, girl.

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Has he ever been introduced to a condom?
He says he never liked the feel of them, and has this stupid mindset that condoms are for wussies.
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At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?
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At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?
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Whats really annoying is when people start moaning that they havent had sex in a few weeks. Especially when they know you havent been laid in years...
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At least you've had sex.

I wonder can chicks really tell if someone has never had sex before? What if you haven't had real sex but have some experience with fleshlights? Would this pay off?
all joking aside maybe it will help with the prematures ??
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i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread
Especially the men with vaginas.
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i bet all the selfconscious virgins love this thread
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