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Old 08-05-2012, 07:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
 
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I cannot take living with my parents anymore. Seriously they treat me like I am a child and everything do or say is wrong. I cannot voice my opinion cause is I do it will probably start a holy war. I am tired of living in a house with bigots and racist. I tired of every time I go to leave the house someone ask where I am going or why I'm going. I'm sick of my parents calling me every 10mins asking when I am coming home.

As soon as I can find another damn job I am gone. I don't care if I have to live the dark. I am flipping gone, I don't care if I do not get to eat every day. I don't care if I do not get have tv or whatever. Just as long as I can get out of this useless family.

LIFE SUCKS.
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Sorry to hear that, I understand your dilemma. Once you find another job, try craigslist housing> "rooms/shared". If you have a roomate they'll probably already have a tv.
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Thanks I'll look into that.
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I cannot take living with my parents anymore. Seriously they treat me like I am a child and everything do or say is wrong. I cannot voice my opinion cause is I do it will probably start a holy war. I am tired of living in a house with bigots and racist. I tired of every time I go to leave the house someone ask where I am going or why I'm going. I'm sick of my parents calling me every 10mins asking when I am coming home.

As soon as I can find another damn job I am gone. I don't care if I have to live the dark. I am flipping gone, I don't care if I do not get to eat every day. I don't care if I do not get have tv or whatever. Just as long as I can get out of this useless family.

LIFE SUCKS.
So you've already had a job before? That sounds like a good start to me. I couldn't hold a cleaning job for more than 4 days because of my mood and fatigue.. which slows stuff down

That and voluntary work. That's my (un)employment experience
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Then why not just run away?
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So you've already had a job before? That sounds like a good start to me. I couldn't hold a cleaning job for more than 4 days because of my mood and fatigue.. which slows stuff down

That and voluntary work. That's my (un)employment experience

Yes, I have had 2 jobs, my last job I was getting paid pretty until they started cutting back my days I worked to 1 or 2 days a week. It was costing me more in fuel to drive to and from work. An by the time I put fuel in my car I was out of money and I couldn't go anywhere or do anything.

I guess I am going to be poor and lonely for the rest of my life. Yay me.
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I guess I am going to be poor and lonely for the rest of my life. Yay me.
That's the way i feel. My parents have health problems, so I take care of them.
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That's the way i feel. My parents have health problems, so I take care of them.

I am sorry to hear that.

Apparently everything is my fault, It's my fault I was born and it's my fault that the world is a scary place to live. I really don't understand why I exist. They are so afraid of me getting hurt, they would rather I just stay inside and slowly die.

This is the reason I am never having children. No need to bring another innocent life into this useless world.
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I am sorry to hear that.

Apparently everything is my fault, It's my fault I was born and it's my fault that the world is a scary place to live. I really don't understand why I exist. They are so afraid of me getting hurt, they would rather I just stay inside and slowly die.

This is the reason I am never having children. No need to bring another innocent life into this useless world.
I worked with my father until he retired last year, and then he had a heart attack and a stroke in April. My mother has had lung problems since the early 1980's. I don't have a job. I don't think that any woman is going to want a 41 year old that is broke and living with his parents.
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I worked with my father until he retired last year, and then he had a heart attack and a stroke in April. My mother has had lung problems since the early 1980's. I don't have a job. I don't think that any woman is going to want a 41 year old that is broke and living with his parents.

Yeah I feel ya. I am almost 30 and no woman is going to want me either. I am sorry your parents are having problems. My mother has problems and I have help take of her. I don't know what to do with my life anymore.
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I sometimes wish that I could go back in time to high school and ask out girls that I liked. I have always been so nervous around girls. The one time that I talked to a girl was when I was told that she liked me. When I did talk to her she laughed and said no way. When I was a junior in high school I looked like I was 12 years old.
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Then why not just run away?

Where am I going to run away to? I don't have a job cause apparently I won some stupid contest in hell where my prize is nobody will hire me. Drug addicts, and criminals can get good jobs but not me.
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Sorry to hear that, I understand your dilemma. Once you find another job, try craigslist housing> "rooms/shared". If you have a roomate they'll probably already have a tv.
Thanks for that post. I just found a really good deal in my city. Time to get away from my psychotic family.
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Look on the bright side. You have a place to stay and no one is trying to kick you out.
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I feel you. Last time i lived with my dad i got fired and i lived in the converted shed/guesthouse and he said he was gonna treat me like i was in the real world and turn my electricity off. Like mmk its 120 degrees out and i live in a shed but if you wanna be crazy then kk. I eventually moved in with my g pa which was really bad for my sa, because it enabled me. Fk man why cant parents try and help you but also understand where you are coming from? I almost got in a fist fight with my dad last time i lived there
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Look on the bright side. You have a place to stay and no one is trying to kick you out.
I know this is just a innocent comment trying to be nice but this annoys the hell outa me. you could say this to anyone no matter how bad there situation is and it aint gonna make them happy. Things suck sometimes thats just how it is nothing bright about suckiness
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Thanks for that post. I just found a really good deal in my city. Time to get away from my psychotic family.
i thought everyone knew about craigslist lol but it is awesome im looking at apartments right now but that wont happen for a long time. cant screw my friends/roomies over theyve helped me too much
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lol i actually put on my profile on a datin site 25-50 'i dont care if ur broke' and livin with parents i dont see a problem at all. there are surely more women like me in the world, you just have to look maybe online for them.

Really? Where can I find women like you?
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im going through this now at 23 i should be moving out i don't even go home anymore unless my parents aren't there i can't stand it
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you think it's bad for you.. lol i just recently got my mom to allow me to shut my door when i go to bed. I am 17. lol she asks me every day if i have my keys before i leave >.<
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