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Join Date: Apr 2009
Hey, Zaph, I'm in the same boat you're in, buddy. I leave my house about twice a month, which is no exaggeration, I've been sngle since 1997, friends hardly ever come visit me, and nothing exciting ever really happens to me in my life. You know what though? I don't mind my life the way it is. The world has the problem in my opinion, not me. Think about it. Everyone treats confidence as EVERYTHING, and whoever doesn't have it they treat like less of a person. Why reject and treat people a certain way because we have an imbalnce in chemicals and a problem we can't help? That's why I hate confident people and think confidence is HIGHLY overrated. Jesus, John Wayne Gayce had confidence too. Look at him. SO because we have a disability, people don't treat us kind or don't treat us at all. The world's the problem in that respect.
With the girls that ignore you ... don't worry about them, they're obviously not good enough for you. Not the other way around. I know TONS of girls who get abused by men and they won't let them go no matter what. Yet, I know some kind-hearted guys who couldn't get a date (LITERALLY) if they were the last man on earth. Females seem to have a distorted view on relationships. They want the bad boy IDIOT types. Why? Like attracts like. But not all of them, just the majority. Majority rules, even though 99 percent of the time it's wrong ... just a bunch of followers and no leaders. If I were you I'd find a better place to hang out than there, if it's possible. Besides, you don't need a woman to be happy. Be happy with yourself, social anxiety disorder and all. In my personal opionion, there is NO disorder in this world more misunderstood than SAD. Everyone thinks we're a bunch of weirdos without trying to find out anything real and concrete. Again, this proves the fact that the world has the problem, not us. Hang in there, man.