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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2012
Gender: Female
Posts: 30
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Is it just me? |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Canada
Gender: Male
Age: 22
Posts: 83
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It's not just you.
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jul 2012
Gender: Male
Age: 22
Posts: 31
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Maybe because you're too shy to look at people so it seems like they ignore you
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 304
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I feel like this most of the time. It makes me feel even lonelier than I already am. It seems as though other people only notice me when they feel like being mean and are looking for a target.
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Status: Ninja
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Virginia
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Posts: 2,079
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Have you tried talking to them?
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Join the SAS eGroup Will You Take the Challenge? Its always easier to overcome SA when others are completing their goals with you! This might help to cure social anxiety http://www.succeedsocially.com/ (author: Chris) Know and believe in yourself, and what others think won't disturb you (William Feather) Matthew 5:44
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Victoria, B.C.
Gender: Male
Posts: 516
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I sometimes feel like people cannot hear me. I think I need to project my voice more.
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2012
Gender: Female
Posts: 30
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Ocassionially someone will talk to me or I'll talk to them and I'm always polite. I never really don't get on with people it's just that after our short conversation is over that seems to be it. I dunno, just feel unnoticed I suppose.
I try to meet peoples eyes and smile but most of the time they dont even realise I'm there. I guess a lot of it is to do with how shy I am but it's got to the point where I'm just like a ghost. I really want to be a little louder but it's like my mind just switches off around people. |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2012
Gender: Female
Posts: 30
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I know exactly what you mean when you say you get lonely but I don't really get picked on. It's horrible that people feel they can do it to you but some people are like that and I think it's more a reflection of their own insecurities than yours
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: London
Gender: Male
Posts: 4
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I too sometimes feel like that in my uni. When I see people several times, or when my mood is beyond that of anyone to understand me.
Unfortunately the source of it is all you, no one else, you have to pull yourself up...well that is how it works for me, each time is different, it's confusing... |
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Status: Permanently Banned
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Montreal
Gender: Male
Age: 26
Posts: 103
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Don't worry I'm invisible too, actually I'm surprised an intelligence agency hasn't contacted me yet to become a spy, I'd be so damn effective.
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Ontario, Canada
Gender: Male
Age: 26
Posts: 386
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It's usually the opposite with me. No matter where I am or what I'm doing, I often feel as though the whole world's staring at me, judging me for one reason or another.
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: new york
Gender: Male
Age: 20
Posts: 289
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I feel that way too. It sucks but other times when I'm embarrassed, I feel like everyone is looking. I only want to be looked upon by one person generally.
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Status: More Cowbell!
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Calgary
Gender: Male
Age: 20
Posts: 116
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Sometimes I wish I was invisible.
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Status: Breathe in, breathe out
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: New York
Gender: Female
Age: 23
Posts: 271
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Status: ...Loading...Please Wait.
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: In the heart of California.
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,127
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Yes. In class the teachers never pick on me for like participation.
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\,,/(^_^)\,,/ Keep Rocking |
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Status: The end is nigh.
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: The City of Dis, Wrath District
Gender: Male
Age: 25
Posts: 873
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I like being invisible. That means there's no way I can get hurt by someone who might be nice enough to talk to me.
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This way to the City of Pain. Every lost soul shall enter. Divine Justice inspired Me to make this place-- It is FOREVER. Abandon all hope, all ye who enter here. ~ Dante's Inferno, Canto 3: The Gates of Hell |
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