I used to be a few years ago, until I had a confrontation with a former friend that changed me.
Basically, something insignificant had happened that I let bother me way more than it should have, feelings of butthurt ensued on my part, and it ended with the friend going off on me about how it was no fun to be around someone when you feel like you have to walk on eggshells 24/7.
That was a very eye opening experience to me, b/c I realized that she was right. I realized that I didn't want to be the type of person where others feel like they have to police what they say constantly b/c I took everything soooo personally. So I decided to make a conscious effort to be less sensitive.
It's still an ongoing learning experience, that's for sure. NGL, I still have my overly sensitive moments.
Now I just try to save those types of feelings for when people say things that are truly nasty.
The future is
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, and it's about a hundred feet above the Arby's.