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I find it really hard to kiss, which has made my ex really put off in the past. I don't know why I don't like it. I think it's boring, too time consuming and a waste of energy. Does anyone of you have this trouble when it comes to smooching?
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post #2 of 39 (permalink) Old 12-30-2008, 08:34 AM
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I had the same problem, but I also take into consideration that all 3 of the girls I kissed had no idea what they were doing, went way too fast and used too much tongue, and that I had no emotional connection or extreme physical attraction to any of them. But I did find it on the whole boring just doing it for long periods of time anyway. Are you a male or female?
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I want to kiss like they do on my soap opera.
Watch a soap to get tips on how to kiss.

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Female and I also can relate to your story about the other having no idea what he was doing. However I feel like I am not the type to enjoy it that much and I feel like it's weird. I'm glad I'm not alone
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No guy wants to kiss me.
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Do you ever get urges to kiss someone you like?
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Do you ever get urges to kiss someone you like?
Yeah. but when we start doing it I fall asleep
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No guy wants to kiss me.
Aww don't worry. It's not that great anyway
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No guy wants to kiss me.
you are not alone , maybe that will help you a bit .. i'm nearly 22 and never kissed at all ,
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How long do you do it for? If you're just kissing for awhile I think that would become boring. You need to do other things to spice it up some while you're kissing.
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post #12 of 39 (permalink) Old 12-30-2008, 02:36 PM
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Making out can be kind of boring, but you have to do it. It leads to, you know,... 'other things'.
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I think kissing is friggen awesome. First kiss with someone is better than sex. It's fun.

This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time.
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Making out can be kind of boring, but you have to do it. It leads to, you know,... 'other things'.
No way making out is awesome. I like just making out with a girl for like an hour. Thats fun.

And kissing is so awesome, you're like putting your tongue in someone else's mouth and touching their tongue with yours. Thats so intimate. I dunno how you guys can't love it.

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Yeah I feel the same really, does feel like a waste of time.

Guess though when you find someone you really love its just used for that purpose, to show you care.

or maybe I am completely wrong : )
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First actual kiss I had was pretty recent, it was hard to open my mouth so she kept trying to stick her tongue in there lol. She knew I was nervous which was cool but I was soo uncomfortable I don't think I can ever get that comfortable with anyone where I would straight out tongue them back. Sigh

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I'd love to know what kissing is all about, but unfortunately I've never been able to experience it.
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I really wish it didn't happen. I got to see what i'm missing out on and it sent me into A bad depression. Sounds lame but having low self esteem sucks

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I'd love to know what kissing is all about, but unfortunately I've never been able to experience it.
That's what i thought too. That it would be great fun because some people love it even more than sex. But it turned out to be a real bore and not fun at all.
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I don't mind it, but I don't see the point of making out for long periods of time. I suppose I am rather goal orientated in that respect.

I'm much more about little pecks on the cheek or something as a show of affection rather than full on making out as foreplay.

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