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guitargirl · 08-31-2009, 06:09 PM

what's your definition of ideal beauty? What truly makes someone beautiful in your eyes?

outcast69 · 08-31-2009, 06:31 PM

Have you seen my avatar that's about it.No,seriously,I need to be with someone I can relate to,otherwise things aren't going to click.Warm,sensitive and isn't judgmental.Someone who appreciates me as much as I would appreciate them.

Iced Soul · 08-31-2009, 06:41 PM

I couldn't describe my ideal beauty, honestly. Not in the looks aspect. I find so many things beautiful. All I know is, a beautiful mind, a beautiful heart, and a beautiful soul is what is truly beautiful in my eyes.

Beautiful eyes, long hair, and tight pants wouldn't hurt, though.

Aurora · 08-31-2009, 07:24 PM

Empathetic, Compassionate, Respectful, Patience, Honest, Optimistic, Imaginative, Philosophical, Spontanaity, Smiles.

Oh and someone who doesnt take themselves seriously, like can laugh at themselves and let go of their faults, as we all have them.

Crystalline · 08-31-2009, 08:08 PM

Someone who's kind, compassionate, has a good heart, depth of character, warmth and an amazing sense of humor.

Happ2beme · 08-31-2009, 08:25 PM

Good looks, fun to be with and understanding.

shadowmask · 08-31-2009, 08:35 PM

Someone who has a deep understanding and appreciation of purity, innocence, honesty, and the value of life.

WineKitty · 09-01-2009, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Aurora

Empathetic, Compassionate, Respectful, Patience, Honest, Optimistic, Imaginative, Philosophical, Spontanaity, Smiles.

Oh and someone who doesnt take themselves seriously, like can laugh at themselves and let go of their faults, as we all have them.

Stated perfectly. My thoughts exactly.

Neptunus · 09-01-2009, 12:27 AM

Physically: Small a.s.s., flawless skin (in my case, I wish I had porcelain, Scarlett O'Hara skin), small breasts, tall, lanky physique. IOW, everything I don't have.

CarlitoBrigante · 09-01-2009, 01:35 AM

Someone attractive and who doesn't mind when I ramble on end about my favorite music or tv shows. Someone who can make me laugh. I'm pretty good at making others laugh, but few people make me laugh.

sacred · 09-01-2009, 04:55 AM

gina carano

she is hot tough and has a good personality.

Kelly065 · 09-01-2009, 09:37 AM

Just someone who understands me............

jer · 09-01-2009, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Phoebus

Physically: Small a.s.s., flawless skin (in my case, I wish I had porcelain, Scarlett O'Hara skin), small breasts, tall, lanky physique. IOW, everything I don't have.

"small breasts, tall, lanky physique"

are you talking about a man or a woman

GSH · 09-01-2009, 12:06 PM

big tits, small frame, nice smile

KyleThomas · 09-01-2009, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by GSH

big tits, small frame, nice smile

La Gioconda?

Sorry. I'm in a somewhat flippant mood tonight.

Neptunus · 09-01-2009, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by jer

"small breasts, tall, lanky physique"

are you talking about a man or a woman

Oops, guess this thread is geared towards relationships as opposed to beauty in general.

Yes, I was talking about the ideal female beauty... as in what I'd like to look like. I'm only attracted to dudes.

As for a guy...

I'd prefer someone who's taller than myself (5'4"), good hygiene, has a job (doesn't matter what), educated (at least trade school),is reliable, honest, thoughtful, loyal and has a good sense of humor.

epril · 09-01-2009, 12:47 PM

longish wavy dark hair. blue eyes, tall, fit, dimples, clean,soft skin, some chest hair
gentle, softspoken, sense of humor, loyal, honest, fun loving

my husband meets about 5 of these.

jer · 09-01-2009, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoebus

Oops, guess this thread is geared towards relationships as opposed to beauty in general.

Yes, I was talking about the ideal female beauty... as in what I'd like to look like.

Phoebus, thanks for clarifying. Pardon me for pressing on this, but ..

what you said about wanting to be a lanky woman has been tormenting me.

Dictionary.com defines lanky as "ungracefully thin and rawboned; bony; gaunt".

Why would a woman want to be lanky. and why small breasts on a lanky woman? why ? why? why? why?

Neptunus · 09-01-2009, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by jer

Phoebus, thanks for clarifying. Pardon me for pressing on this, but ..

what you said about wanting to be a lanky woman has been tormenting me.

Dictionary.com defines lanky as "ungracefully thin and rawboned; bony; gaunt".

Why would a woman want to be lanky. and why small breasts on a lanky woman? why ? why? why? why?

Eh, I prefer this definition minus the ungraceful part.

lanky -Somewhat lank; tall, slim, and rather ungraceful
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/lanky

Yes, guess I used the word incorrectly - should have just said tall and slender.

As for the breasts part, that's personal.

Satisfied?

indigo · 09-01-2009, 06:00 PM

A spirit of selflessness, compassion, and heart! Honestly, if things of that nature are missing, the outer beauty really diminishes a great deal in my opinion.

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guitargirl Status: SAS Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 45	your ideal beauty? what's your definition of ideal beauty? What truly makes someone beautiful in your eyes?

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Iced Soul Status: Dancing on Rainbows Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Calilalaland Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 1,775	I couldn't describe my ideal beauty, honestly. Not in the looks aspect. I find so many things beautiful. All I know is, a beautiful mind, a beautiful heart, and a beautiful soul is what is truly beautiful in my eyes. Beautiful eyes, long hair, and tight pants wouldn't hurt, though. __________________ I scraped my knees while I was praying And found a demon in my safest haven. Seems like, it's getting harder to believe in anything Than just to get lost in all my selfish thoughts. I wanna know what it'd be like To find perfection in my pride To see nothing in the light Just turn it off In all my spite, in all my spite, I'll turn it off. - Turn It Off - Paramore http://twitter.com/MissEerie

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Aurora Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Melbourne, Australia. Gender: Female Age: 24 Posts: 850	Empathetic, Compassionate, Respectful, Patience, Honest, Optimistic, Imaginative, Philosophical, Spontanaity, Smiles. Oh and someone who doesnt take themselves seriously, like can laugh at themselves and let go of their faults, as we all have them. __________________ I tell you everything that is really nothing, and nothing of what is everything, do not be fooled by what I am saying. Please listen carefully and try to hear what I am not saying. ~ Charles C. Finn

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Happ2beme Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Yucaipa, California Gender: Male Age: 45 Posts: 241	Good looks, fun to be with and understanding. __________________ Edward Scissorhands. You give the quote "nothing is what it seems" its real meaning! You deserve more than you get, but it takes time and effort knowing you for people to understand they have the real deal here. You are totally original although too idealistic, which makes it difficult for you to be understood...

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shadowmask Status: Seeing stars Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: TN Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,085	Someone who has a deep understanding and appreciation of purity, innocence, honesty, and the value of life. __________________ Basically, I'm complicated I have a hard time taking the easy way I wouldn't call it schizophrenia But I'll be at least two people today

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outcast69 Status: Comfortably Numb Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Philly Gender: Male Posts: 230	Have you seen my avatar that's about it.No,seriously,I need to be with someone I can relate to,otherwise things aren't going to click.Warm,sensitive and isn't judgmental.Someone who appreciates me as much as I would appreciate them.

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Crystalline Status: Tempestade Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Manila, Philippines Gender: Female Posts: 130	Someone who's kind, compassionate, has a good heart, depth of character, warmth and an amazing sense of humor.

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Neptunus Status: Authenticating Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: USA Gender: Female Posts: 2,841	Physically: Small a.s.s., flawless skin (in my case, I wish I had porcelain, Scarlett O'Hara skin), small breasts, tall, lanky physique. IOW, everything I don't have. __________________ "When I stand before thee at the day's end, thou shalt see my scars and know that I had my wounds and also my healing." ~Rabindranath Tagore "Being gentle means forgiving yourself when you mess up. We should learn from our mistakes, but we shouldn't beat the tar out of ourselves over them. The past is just that, past. Learn what went wrong and why. Make amends if you need to. Then drop it and move on." ---Sean Covey

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CarlitoBrigante Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Age: 25 Posts: 250	Someone attractive and who doesn't mind when I ramble on end about my favorite music or tv shows. Someone who can make me laugh. I'm pretty good at making others laugh, but few people make me laugh.

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sacred Status: bored of sas Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 156	gina carano she is hot tough and has a good personality. __________________

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Kelly065 Status: Emotional Mess Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Asheville, NC Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 96	Just someone who understands me............

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GSH Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: NC Gender: Male Posts: 147	big tits, small frame, nice smile

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epril Status: sa challenger Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: arizona Gender: Female Age: 45 Posts: 2,654	longish wavy dark hair. blue eyes, tall, fit, dimples, clean,soft skin, some chest hair gentle, softspoken, sense of humor, loyal, honest, fun loving my husband meets about 5 of these.

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indigo Status: Just want a handle on it! Join Date: Aug 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 67	A spirit of selflessness, compassion, and heart! Honestly, if things of that nature are missing, the outer beauty really diminishes a great deal in my opinion.