Have you ever ordered yourself to have fun ?

[VIncymon]

Yesterday I was at a friends house for his birthday, tomorrow I will be at another friend's house, cuz he's visiting for the summer.

Of course, the "party" just amounts to the three of us S.A. dudes and probably 1 or 2 girls- talkin, and drinking. But hey, that's all good.


Well, its my last semester of college. It is a semester of electives. In one class is this girl that is undateable as explained in this thread,

http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/...tuation-65773/

On the other hand, in another class I'm sitting next to this beutiful girl, that I have seen around the college for 2 years, but never had an excuse to talk too. I'm glad I finally met her. I can't believe I almost forgot about that girl.

So, what is vincymon going to do ? Vincymon is going to have fun

The constant noise in my head of "boo hoo why don't I have a girlfriend" has somewhat subsided, I don't know why, but I am glad for it. The great thing about electives is that it gives you a chance to meet a new set of girls.
At this point, nothing is gonna kill my mood; not even the annoying, talkative prick sitting on my other side.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7UDIf...e=channel_page

[jellybelly]

Good for you for making up your mind to have fun!

[deelishuss]

So far, I've read two posts from you, and I'm really impressed with how positive you are. It sounds like you are making terrific headway with SA.

And, to answer your question, yes, I have ordered myself to have fun, lol. I will tell myself to get out of a bad mood, see the bright light, and choose to be happy. Also, I will fake it until I make it, as they say, lol. It usually works. It really is about your mindset and positive thinking. Here's the weird thing, I've done it twice this week and both times I had an amazing time! Pretty much all laughs and no fights with the bf. Good stuff.

[VIncymon]

Originally Posted by deelishuss

So far, I've read two posts from you, and I'm really impressed with how positive you are. It sounds like you are making terrific headway with SA.

And, to answer your question, yes, I have ordered myself to have fun, lol. I will tell myself to get out of a bad mood, see the bright light, and choose to be happy. Also, I will fake it until I make it, as they say, lol. It usually works. It really is about your mindset and positive thinking. Here's the weird thing, I've done it twice this week and both times I had an amazing time! Pretty much all laughs and no fights with the bf. Good stuff.

Thanks for your positivity. Kudos to you yourself.