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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Arizona, USA
Gender: Male
Age: 24
Posts: 37
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I feel like if somebody is looking at me I need to be doing something, I just cant be standing there. I find that chewing gum tends to help me a bit but not completely. |
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#2 (permalink) |
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Status: In hiding
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Australia, hiding under a rock somewhere
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Posts: 569
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Hmmm. You know, I don't know. I think I shift the weight from leg to leg a lot, and/or fidget. I (fake?)yawn a lot too.
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#3 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Melbourne, Australia.
Gender: Male
Age: 19
Posts: 52
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Yeah I use my phone to look at as if it held tomorrows lotto numbers, its a handy device to 'appear' busy. I also chew a lot myself and helps to a degree for some reason anyway.
Cheers. |
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#4 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Utopia
Gender: Female
Age: 17
Posts: 68
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tug my earlobe, bite my nails, purse my lips and if I listen to music I will turn it up really loud.
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#5 (permalink) |
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Status: Busy being useless
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: United Kingdom
Gender: Male
Age: 16
Posts: 144
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Scratch my neck/nose/head/face
look at my phone, fidget etc I do that when I feel i'm being watched, I have to try and relax and then i'm fine, but it's hard to think in those situations
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Traditional nationalism cannot survive the fissioning of the atom. One world or none. ~Stuart Chase Life is cruel
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#6 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: ireland
Gender: Female
Posts: 47
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#7 (permalink) |
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Status: Broken
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: A Fruitloop Daydream
Gender: Male
Age: 44
Posts: 29,638
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I don't know I guess I just stand there and look weird, maybe I need a cell phone lol.
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All will wither, go to sleep The ones you love you may not keep All you touch will fall apart The dreams you kill will break your heart There's no mercy, there's no rest The void will scream within your chest No one knows and no one will So leave this place that makes you Ill - Madder Mortem |
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#8 (permalink) |
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Status: Stir crazy
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: UK
Gender: Male
Age: 44
Posts: 674
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I sometimes play with my phone but I've got pretty good at acting like a normal person.
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#9 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 89
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play with my phone, dig through my hell mess of a purse. sometimes i just stand there staring off into space.
i don't fidget too much anymore and i don't think my anxiety is as noticeable to anyone else now. so... i don't really pay attention to what i'm doing most of the time. hope i don't have some crazy look on my face. such as
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#10 (permalink) |
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Status: Garr.
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: USA.
Gender: Female
Age: 18
Posts: 112
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The only thing I do is repeatedly run my hand through my hair. Other than that, I would think I appear normal to others.
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#11 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: May 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 25
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I pretend look for stuff in my bag, yawn,
try look at my phone (if I'm shaking I can't do that) try stare into space, it usually all culminates in me forcing myself to think happy thoughts. When I'm in a group situation with nothing to fidget with, my body locks up completely and I implode
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#12 (permalink) |
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Status: Stir crazy
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: UK
Gender: Male
Age: 44
Posts: 674
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Have you ever looked at your watch about a dozen times in the space of a minute just because you saw two cute girls staring at you every time you looked up? Err, no, me neither.
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#13 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 356
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I was stood alone with the girl I like waiting for class today and it was so awkward. I just kept looking around randomly (although not at her, I daren't look at her in case she notices that I look at her alot, but now I actually probably look at her less than normal people).
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#14 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: UK
Posts: 917
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I pick at my fingers, look around, pretend to be getting something from my pockets/bag. Hm that's all I can think of at the top of my head.
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When I was a kid I used to pray every night for a new bike. Then I realised that The Lord doesn't work that way, so I stole one and asked him to forgive me.
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#15 (permalink) |
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Status: Wherever The Winds Fly
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Washington
Gender: Male
Age: 19
Posts: 600
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well my heart starts beating really really fast, i get really sweaty and my hands start shaking. also my voice gets all quiet, direct, and wobbly. it's almost impossible to make eye contact when i'm like this. i'm sure it all makes me look like some sort of weirdo... =(
i try to hide it by move around a lot, like i was intentionally doing that or something lol. i dare say i've gotten pretty good at hiding it! =] |
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#16 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Halifax, NS
Gender: Male
Posts: 202
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I put my hands on my face. Resting my chin on my palm, covering my mouth ect.
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#17 (permalink) |
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Status: sa challenger
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: arizona
Gender: Female
Age: 45
Posts: 2,654
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I scratch my head, face, arms, but that makes me feel more anxious, socially, but less anxious, physically. I think I'm ticing when I do this. I squeeze my eyes shut, another tic.
To look relaxed, I read or pretend to read a book. I don't notice the urgency to look busy as much as when I was younger. Now I feel comfortable staring into space. I'm often too tired to care. One place I do have trouble is at the grocery store, where I am thinking about planning dinner, or adding numbers in my head, and I would prefer to stand and stare uninterrupted, but inevitably a clerk will ask if I need help, which I don't, so I try to look occupied. I'll pick up an item and pretend I'm reading the label so I can take time to think. |
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#18 (permalink) |
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Status: A prune isn't a vegetable
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: England
Gender: Male
Age: 18
Posts: 208
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I fidget, act like I'm busy texting someone, play with my hands, crack my knuckles, smoke (not because I'm addicted to it, but because it fulfills my urge to fidget, hence why I'm a "social" smoker), stare at the ground and try not to draw any attention.
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#19 (permalink) |
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Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Sydney Australia
Gender: Male
Age: 21
Posts: 637
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hey I wonder what the time is oh and I'd better see if I have any new SMS's (I rarely do). I'll also read something if its nearby.
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