.. it IS easier for a woman to get laid on average and I'm a woman admitting that.
Thank you. This man vs woman issue has come up forever on SAS and many mistakenly think it's sexist or means women don't really suffer from SA to simply acknowledge gender differences that we all know exist.
If a man walked up to a woman at a bar and said "Hi, I'm Tom. I noticed you're really hot; would you like to have sex?" What response is Tom likely to get? I'm thinking a look something like
then she'll smack him for being a total perv.
Now switch genders and we get a totally different situation: "Hi, I'm Jenny. I notice you're really hot; would you like to have sex?" Jenny might well get the same
look, but the shock would not be from him being offended. He'd be shocked since this is unimaginable (outside of a porn video) and on par with winning the lottery.
The only way this method is at all likely to work for Tom is if he's cute and at a gay bar with other equally horny dudes. If Tom's straight he's screwed (or rather not) with that right-to-the-point pick up line. Jenny is likely to score quite easily once she manages to convince guys she's not joking.
.. It's because A) women, for some random reason, decide to get "offended" when a man wants to just have sex with her. and B) Men on average are more desperate for sex (prostitution is an example. you don't see many male prostitutes because there are far less women willing to shell out money just for some sex.
It's all goes back to evolution and animal behavior. Until very recent times sex was something that led to pregnancy. Women thus were picky about who they had sex with as they wanted a man who could provide for a child. Men only needed to make sure their DNA was passed on and the best way to do that was to have sex with as many women as possible. Obviously all of us are descended from horny guys as guys into celibacy don't pass on DNA.
One sees this all over the animal kingdom where males do battle -- sometimes till severe injury or death -- to decide which buck gets to knock up the doe in heat.