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Old 10-13-2009, 08:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
 
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Okay, When I went to sleep I had my pants on and buttoned up. When I woke up today, they where unbuttoned. Do you think it's possible that my Mom did that, and maybe did something worse?
As for my mom, she's never done anything sexual to me in my life. My mom is a Christian, she said that would never do anything like that. She also has my dad to umm take care of her "needs" for that kind of stuff... I asked my mom, she said she didn't do it. The logical part of my mind says that nothing happened. Sadly the illogical part is so strong...
There have been times that I've woken up a bit before she wakes so I pretend to be asleep to see what she does, and she only wakes me up. btw, by the time I wake up there's nobody in the house other than me and my mom...
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nah, very unlikely. you either unbuttoned them in your sleep with your hands or they were unbuttoned just from moving around.
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I think your ocd is screwing with us again.
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dude c'mon. of course it looks like something your mom would do.
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dude c'mon. of course it looks like something your mom would do.
How bout some help from someone that isn't a ****ing *******?

She's a christian, she never done anything to make me not trust her.
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Your claims just seem rediculous.
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I know, that's how my ocd freaking works....
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She's a christian, she never done anything to make me not trust her.
Well, obviously you don't trust her, or you wouldn't be pondering whether she unbuttoned your pants.

I agree with Nubly, though. It's clear that your mother planned to unclothe you as you slept. I mean there's really no other possibility.
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If you know that the claim is rediculous, don't worry about it...
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If you know that the claim is rediculous, don't worry about it...
I know, it's but still hard for me...
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It's unlikely, you probably unbuttoned them just before you fell asleep and you don't remember.
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TBH, your claims seem untrue.
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What you're describing isn't OCD. OCD requires there be a compulsive behavior associated with a specific obsessive thought. eg. If i touch a door handle I have to wash my hands 15x
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What you're describing isn't OCD. OCD requires there be a compulsive behavior associated with a specific obsessive thought. eg. If i touch a door handle I have to wash my hands 15x
obsessive intrusive thoughts that filledwithfear1 experiences are associated with OCD.
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first you wanted to know if a girl from 800 miles was going to kill you and now you want to know if your mom sexually assaulted you during sleep?

the answer to both of those is almost assuredly 'No.'
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I agree with everyone else. It is nothing to worry about.
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first you wanted to know if a girl from 800 miles was going to kill you and now you want to know if your mom sexually assaulted you during sleep?

the answer to both of those is almost assuredly 'No.'
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obsessive intrusive thoughts that filledwithfear1 experiences are associated with OCD.
if you read his post history it looks more like troll posts than OCD
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guys, I"m still worried about it...
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if you read his post history it looks more like troll posts than OCD
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I think he's a troll, no offence if your not mate but look at all the threads he's made
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