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Old 10-21-2013, 05:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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I don't even go to lunch anymore, I sit in my art teacher's room, and draw. I remember one time I sat in the bathroom stall
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It's really rough not having anyone to sit with; I remember I at least had two to four other nerdy friends to sit at my own table to not feel too bad. When they weren't around, I'd just abstain from having lunch at all and go to the library or my computer science room.

That's the best alternative, though, finding something constructive to do for lunch instead; any activities that are offered to keep yourself occupied. Some other thread mentioned that someone talked to their counselor and got a pass to eat their lunch at the library or homeroom.
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Old 10-21-2013, 05:45 PM   #3 (permalink)
 
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I used to go to one of my teachers classrooms
Now I just sit with a friend, however there's nothing wrong with avoiding the hell that is known as school lunch.
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That sucks. I usually had people I could sit with at lunch. When I didn't I would either go to the library, my car, or the bathroom.
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Pizza-girl, my advice is to simply not go to lunch. Try the library. It's a quiet place.
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I dont go to the cafeteria anymore either. I go to the library everyday
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I also used to go to the bathroom. :\
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Pizza-girl, my advice is to simply not go to lunch. Try the library. It's a quiet place.
I'll consider, that thank you
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I remember when i was back in school i rarely had anyone to hang with. I would just sit by myself or watch guys playing pool, pretending i had an interest. The thing was i actually didnt mind being alone, i was always a loner by nature, i was just obsessed with what people were thinking of about this guy sitting by himself.

In retrospect i regret not simply going to the library to read a book or draw something.
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I never sit with other people they think im annoying im a weirdo so I go to the darkest spot I cat find and put my hood over my face so no one can see me cry
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I never sit with other people they think im annoying a weirdo.... I always go to the darkest most secluded spot I can find and put my hood over my face and cry my hoods always on anyways nobody will ever like me unless they know me know my losses know my pain ....................... nobody knows my heart is cracked and fragile im afraid to let people in if they even wanted it
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am I alone in this world??? does anyone really have friends??????????
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I have had a dark and messed up life
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why do people need sociality ???? why cant we all be happy being alone??????????????? I wish I could
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does no one care?
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I like pepperoni and cheese................ hungry howies has good cheese pizza
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In hs I sat outside by myself for lunch everyday.
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Whenever I'm put in that situation, I just drive out and buy food ouside of school
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