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when ugly people call beautiful people ugly just becuz they're jealous

****!! I have seen this so many times.


I mean decent looking people do not even go around calling people ugly. Is always the ugly one attacking pretty people.


What do they benefit from that?
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Who's ugly and who's beautiful?
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I've never witnessed this before. Usually so-called "ugly" people envy the "pretty" people.

Notice I put those in quotes because no one can define what is ugly & what is beautiful. Maybe your so-called "ugly" people don't see themselves as "ugly".


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I have seen a lot of ugly people calling other ugly people ugly. I know that personally.

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Is in the eyes of the beholder, so lets just freaking take it like that and stick to the topic.
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If they feel like they can get away with it, it's usually just jealousy revealing itself. But like everyone else said beauty is subjective. What you think of as ugly can be seen as beautiful to someone else.

Also I've noticed the opposite way more often: the "beautiful" attacking the "ugly" because they feel like because they both know the "beautiful" person looks better the "ugly" person can't say anything back. And I think anyone attacking anyone is bad, why can't we all just get along?
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There are hateful, loving, neutral, etc people in every "genre" of people. What you are talking about goes both ways in many different subjects.
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If someone calls me ugly, I suspect it is because they deem me unattractive. If someone sees me as hot or good looking or whatever have you, I assume it's because they think I am good looking. Nothing more or less. I've been called one more so than the other, though.
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I mean decent looking people do not even go around calling people ugly. Is always the ugly one attacking pretty people.
False. I've had beautiful people call me ugly.
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I mean decent looking people do not even go around calling people ugly.
Well this is just ball clenchingly ironic.

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What do they benefit from that?
I don't know, but maybe it makes them feel better about themselves the same way accusing ugly people of jealousy makes you feel better about yourself.

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Ugly people are no worse than beautiful people, and vice versa. Totally agree with someguy8. This is just what us less attractive people need: attacks on our character as well as our looks. :/
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They do it out of denial and to make themselves feel superior.
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Ugly people are no worse than beautiful people, and vice versa. Totally agree with someguy8. This is just what us less attractive people need: attacks on our character as well as our looks. :/
Agreed!! I'm a less attractive person. And even though I am jealous of beautiful people, I don't call them ugly or say anything bad about them to make myself feel better.
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Ugly people are no worse than beautiful people, and vice versa. Totally agree with someguy8. This is just what us less attractive people need: attacks on our character as well as our looks. :/
Even without any personal attacks I think TV has already made it pretty clear that beautiful = good while ugly = bad.

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People say this no matter what, usually its a put down onto people, it happens throughout the world the media are the worst culprits for this because they pick at minor faults, with some agreeing then spreading this mentality.
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If I call someone ugly it is there personality I am referring to

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How do you know that the "ugly" people are doing it out of jealousy?

I've never seen this happen in "real life", only with celebrities. I'm going to assume its the same kind of situation, here. People will call a celebrity who they don't personally care for "ugly", because they're so sick of hearing about how hot/beautiful they are all the time.

There's only so many times you can hear someone rave about how hot Megan Fox (or anyone you personally don't find all that attractive) is before you snap and say that she's ugly as hell. Is she really ugly? Of course not. But, people have this reaction to rebel things that are popular. It's because other people are constantly praising it that you feel some sort of "balance" by knocking it down a peg. This happens with people, movies, anything really.
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Well this is just ball clenchingly ironic.
Yeah, what you just said. But I think the irony went over the OP's head just a little bit.

I, for one, am tired of the whole division between "good looking" and "ugly" people. Just because someone's looks don't appeal to the masses of people doesn't make them any less human than anyone else. We trolls have feelings and preferences too, but of course those are all just feelings of bitterness and jealousy and are invalid becuz we're ugly.

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How do you know that the "ugly" people are doing it out of jealousy?
There's only so many times you can hear someone rave about how hot Megan Fox (or anyone you personally don't find all that.
Sometimes it's for other reasons too, like Sarah Jessica Parker. She legitimately looks like a horse. (had to)
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Rather than trying to pull out the reason, maybe it's because they actually think the other person looks ugly to them.

When you feel vulnerable and your psychological defenses are failing the best defense mechanism is to be more trusting.
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