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sometimes i feel like nothing matters

Sometimes i get so depress i feel like the no point in anything like i shouldn't even be here. Why am i here. Everything i want in life doesn't work out for me. The girl i like i don't even think she thinks of me as anything more than a friend.
The things ive tryed to do like school or putting myself out there trying to embrace my fears it all back fires. Every time i want to say something or tell someone something that been on my mind i back down and make excuses and pretend everything is ok. I don't know what to do with myself anymore.
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There's good times and **** times you just gotta roll with it. Things won't always seem as bad as you think right now, remember you are just as important as anyone else, you have your place in the universe and you have a purpose. If you think you are depressed it really helps to open up and tell someone close to you.

If it's girl troubles like your hinting at then why not make it your purpose to try and get her to be your girlfreind?
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I think it may help if I tell you the truth: Nothing you do will matter in 80 years cuz you'll be dead. This actually can help you stop worrying about having problems now. Sometimes I think back at what I was worried about like 10 or so years ago, and I'm like wow, I was worried about that? That doesn't even matter now.
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Thanks guys. I understand that later down the road these problems will be small. I understand that with all the problems except for this girl. ZeroG64 i would love to take you advice and tell her i think about it all the time but its such a weird situation. I'm so scared of the response. Even if she likes me I'm even scared of that. I just don't know how to get the courage to spit it out.
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I think it may help if I tell you the truth: Nothing you do will matter in 80 years cuz you'll be dead. This actually can help you stop worrying about having problems now. Sometimes I think back at what I was worried about like 10 or so years ago, and I'm like wow, I was worried about that? That doesn't even matter now.
This is my exact strategy for positive thinking. All the pressures and expectations become such a load of tripe.
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