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Old 08-02-2011, 05:00 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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So I have this crush on my math tutor. I think that he know that I like him for some reason. Like, I think he might know that i like him because he is acting really differently to me. For example, today, I was asking him some questions about my homework and he was acting really differently towards me. He would show me the steps to the problem, but he was acting really different than before.

I am really shy, so I try not to give out any weird body language or signals. I really dont want to mess this up. Because I really want to pass my math class, and I dont want to lose a good tutor either.

Its just so awkward because he is not acting the same. Its also really hard at the same time because he is so gorgeous and sweet.

Do you'll think he knows about it? What are many ways that I can tell that he knows I like him????
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Old 08-02-2011, 05:43 PM   #2 (permalink)
 
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It's hard to tell from what you posted.

How would you feel if he knew?
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How is he different? You didn't really explain.
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It's hard to tell from what you posted.

How would you feel if he knew?
Its hard to explain, but he use to talk to me a lot. Now, he sometimes cant look me in the eye like he used to. He acts like he knows something.
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Old 08-02-2011, 05:57 PM   #5 (permalink)
 
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He probably doesn't know unless you have been giving him indicators of interest (IOIs). look them up on google if you want to know exactly.

If you are really acting shy and flustered when you are around him, he may think you have a crush on him or he might think you are just socially awkward. But you say you try not give out any weird body language so theres no reason to speculate.

Im far from an expert on girls (very far) but ive had a few that i know liked me but i was too nervous to ask them out. i knew they liked me because:
1. when i talked to her, her face lit up and smiled at me and she directed her whole body to face me.
2. she laughs at a lot of things i say, even if they are not jokes
3. she kind of talks about herself a lot.

if you do any of these, he knows you like him

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Sorry but there is no universal sign that indicates someone is into you. Unless they directly say, "I am into you." Just start being more flirty with him and see how he responds.
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Can't really speculate since not only does it depend on the guy, but also on whether or not he's interested himself. .

Different guys will react in different ways according to their own level of interest.
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thanks guys! i feel better. i just dont want things to be awkward!!!
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how old are you and how old is he?
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how old are you and how old is he?
i'm 23. i dont know how old he is. i think he's the same age as me.
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i'm 23. i dont know how old he is. i think he's the same age as me.
you should hit that....
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23 and you have a math tutor. That's kind of strange.
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23 and you have a math tutor. That's kind of strange.
well, im still in college!!!! im not that great in calculus!
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you should hit that....
i know, right..lol
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well, im still in college!!!! im not that great in calculus!
I guess I can't relate. I took calculus in high school. Not so subtle brag
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Hmmm really in MY opinion its all a gamble. You have the guys who will notice that you like him. This guy will tease you, and have fun with you. Then the guys who will shy away from you because of the feeling he gets from being around you. Course they could just be being friendly/shy.


Edit: Im taking Calculus as well! Feels bad miss. Soooo confusing.
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23 and you have a math tutor. That's kind of strange.
Not really. People can need tutors at any age.

But him acting differently could be your paranoia, or it could be something. It's hard to tell. My advice is to focus on your work first and foremost, considering you need a tutor. Towards the end you could suggest hanging out with him sometime and see how he reacts.
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Not really. People can need tutors at any age.

But him acting differently could be your paranoia, or it could be something. It's hard to tell. My advice is to focus on your work first and foremost, considering you need a tutor. Towards the end you could suggest hanging out with him sometime and see how he reacts.
good advice
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Hmmm really in MY opinion its all a gamble. You have the guys who will notice that you like him. This guy will tease you, and have fun with you. Then the guys who will shy away from you because of the feeling he gets from being around you. Course they could just be being friendly/shy.


Edit: Im taking Calculus as well! Feels bad miss. Soooo confusing.
totally
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There are three possibilities in this case:

1. He knows, he doesn't like you in return and feels awkward about it
2. He likes you as well and is shy about it (in this case he may or may not know)
3. He's completely oblivious and the change in his actions is due to some external event that has nothing to do with you.

It's impossible to know for sure unless he tells you. I'd say try to read his body language to get a better feel for it. Maybe you could say something like: "I've noticed you've been really quiet lately. Is something bothering you?" and see how he responds. As a former tutor, I'd advise against saying anything about your feelings for him unless it seems pretty likely that they're reciprocated - that would have freaked me out when I was tutoring. But I know how hard it is to assess how people feel about you when you like them...I always analyze things I would have never paid any attention to and read so far into things, then wonder if I'm just trying to convince myself that they like me and there's really nothing there, then I think I'm trying to convince myself that they DON'T like me...it's so frustrating :P
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