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comscar · 03-16-2010, 04:25 PM

In 7th grade there was this kid who might have had SA like I did. I always saw him because he was around my locker. He'd always get picked on by this one bully in the hallway. Pushed him about, dropped his books, ect.

One day the bully did something to him, I didn't catch what exactly, but he made the kid cry. Everyone stared at him or giggled. I was very furious seeing this because I could relate to the same thing in 5th grade.

I waited for the bully to walk home after school. The field was empty so I put on a ski mask I found in the closet, walked up and clocked him in the nose. I told him leave the kid alone.

After that he left him alone and luckily I was never caught.

But I never knew if I should have felt good about this. I mean yeah, I suppose I stopped a kid from being bullied from someone. But I did something terribly violent which is just against what I do...

I know it's stupid to be bothered by something this long ago, but I just don't know. What do you think?

dermo · 03-16-2010, 04:32 PM

The bully had it coming to him. End of story.

Amanda123 · 03-16-2010, 04:45 PM

haha

good job.

Doc Rice · 03-16-2010, 04:49 PM

Vigilantism at its best.

Altered · 03-16-2010, 05:06 PM

I wouldn't feel bad. No one else cared enough to do anything about it. You probably saved that kid a lot of grief.

Josh · 03-16-2010, 05:18 PM

You did the right thing. That bully was probably making that kids daily life a living hell. You should be proud that you acted to stop the abuse when others didn't. It is a strong possibility that bullying like that will lead to suicide or far worse violence than a punch in the nose. You may have saved the kids life.

Zomg · 03-16-2010, 05:38 PM

HAHA!
That's awesome! I'd so do that!

gaTess · 03-16-2010, 06:03 PM

Wow, you truly care about others. What you did was epic!

Keith · 03-16-2010, 06:09 PM

You did the right thing in my opinion way to act like a ninja

bbarn · 03-16-2010, 06:15 PM

You saved the kid from being tortured. You don't need credit, I'm sure he appreciates what you did. What goes around comes around!

03-16-2010, 04:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
comscar Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: oregon Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 154	Should I feel bad about this? In 7th grade there was this kid who might have had SA like I did. I always saw him because he was around my locker. He'd always get picked on by this one bully in the hallway. Pushed him about, dropped his books, ect. One day the bully did something to him, I didn't catch what exactly, but he made the kid cry. Everyone stared at him or giggled. I was very furious seeing this because I could relate to the same thing in 5th grade. I waited for the bully to walk home after school. The field was empty so I put on a ski mask I found in the closet, walked up and clocked him in the nose. I told him leave the kid alone. After that he left him alone and luckily I was never caught. But I never knew if I should have felt good about this. I mean yeah, I suppose I stopped a kid from being bullied from someone. But I did something terribly violent which is just against what I do... I know it's stupid to be bothered by something this long ago, but I just don't know. What do you think? __________________ deviantart

03-16-2010, 04:32 PM	#2 (permalink)
dermo Status: ****** Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: PA, USA Gender: Male Posts: 5	The bully had it coming to him. End of story. __________________ pwn that noob with the uber leet hax and the pr0n. wtg ftw wtf r0xerz b0xerz omg? http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l3...name/dermo.gif Video games do not make people violent. Lag does. Windows is not a virus. A virus is small and efficient...

03-16-2010, 04:49 PM	#4 (permalink)
Doc Rice Status: SAS Guitarist Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 446	Vigilantism at its best. __________________ Support California's Proposition 19!

03-16-2010, 05:06 PM	#5 (permalink)
Altered Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Carolina Gender: Male Age: 26 Posts: 36	I wouldn't feel bad. No one else cared enough to do anything about it. You probably saved that kid a lot of grief. __________________ As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light of meaning in the darkness of mere being. -C.G. Jung

03-16-2010, 06:09 PM	#9 (permalink)
Keith Status: in the twilight zone Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Lowell, Massachusetts Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 2,541	You did the right thing in my opinion way to act like a ninja __________________ "Difficulties are things that show a person what they are" -Epictetus "If your going through hell, keep going" -Winston Churchill "The true voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes" - Marcel Proust "We must make the best of what is under our control, and take the rest as nature is" - Epictetus

03-16-2010, 04:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
Amanda123 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Florida Gender: Female Age: 17 Posts: 396	haha good job.

03-16-2010, 05:18 PM	#6 (permalink)
Josh Status: Shadow of a Human Being Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Wisconsin Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 166	You did the right thing. That bully was probably making that kids daily life a living hell. You should be proud that you acted to stop the abuse when others didn't. It is a strong possibility that bullying like that will lead to suicide or far worse violence than a punch in the nose. You may have saved the kids life.

03-16-2010, 05:38 PM	#7 (permalink)
Zomg Status: Zomg It's Mellie Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Canada Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 257	HAHA! That's awesome! I'd so do that!

03-16-2010, 06:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
gaTess Status: Permanently Banned Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The rooftops. Gender: Male Posts: 513	Wow, you truly care about others. What you did was epic!

03-16-2010, 06:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
bbarn Status: 1stepforward, 2stepsback Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Gender: Male Age: 25 Posts: 317	You saved the kid from being tortured. You don't need credit, I'm sure he appreciates what you did. What goes around comes around! __________________ “You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore” - Christopher Columbus

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