Originally Posted by tehuti88
Whoa! When I tried to post this it told me I didn't have permission so I figured the thread was deleted or something. Nope, still there. So...I guess I'm taking a chance here.
(ETA--looks like a post I replied to was deleted. So if my post ends up modified or deleted, so be it, I guess.
No. Untrue. (And don't pull out the "No offense" card.)
Would you please stop believing you can speak for all women?
You do realize that with your claims you're making all MEN look bad, right? "Women don't even have to try to get sex, guys will be all over ANYTHING!" is pretty much what you're claiming.
And I'm sure there are many guys who would disagree with you, such as those who go for looks. Take a look around, there are plenty guys around here who would never go for a woman without good looks.
I really hope I'm not going to end up banned for getting into this YET AGAIN, and for probably getting some innocent guy's thread locked. But it's so frustrating. You are not a woman. You can speak for yourself, but you cannot speak for all women. You've had women who were able to directly contradict you from experience yet you still claim these things; why? I don't presume to speak for YOU. You're not in my shoes; what makes you think you can speak for me?
i got a pm from a mod giving me a warning for possibly starting a gender war or whatever.
listen. i don't want to debate or argue, i just want to clear this up. i'm not speaking for all men. of course there are lots of men who will not have sex with certain women. Me included. of course a woman who's not that good looking won't be easily having sex with a guy who looks and acts like brad pitt. i totally understand that and it's not what i was saying.
here, ill give an example. i, a straight male, decided to post an ad on the gay casual encounter section in craigslist. all i posted was a very blurry washed out picture of my body and genitals. i posted in the ad that i was insecure and didn't want to post my face, and to only respond to my ad if they don't care what i look like. A handful of men responded, with their phone number and pictures of their face(and genitals), saying that they want me to come over on the spot to have sex with them. some of them were gross, some of them were at least above average.
a good amount of men, but not all men, are horndogs who will have sex with anything that's even remotely attractive. I guarantee you. post an ad on craigslist as a woman, and you will have a swarm of men, some at least decent looking, who are willing to have sex with you. no matter WHAT you look like.
now, are these the types of men that you'll date or even want to be friends with? no, theyre probably gross and sleazy and won't respect you or treat you well.
so i really really don't mean any offense and don't want to spark further debate. i just want to share what ive just been through, that kind of shocked me as well. like, did a bunch of guys seriously want to have sex with me just from a blurry picture?
and as a man, i will be very hard pressed to find a way to get sex with women as easily as i can get sex with gay men.
edit: and to reiterate.. i am NOT saying women have an easier life than men. im really scared you'll misunderstand me