I never used to be, but when I started having problems in university (long story--transfered twice, dropped out, dropped classes, went part-time, didn't graduate until last year) I became an enormous disappointment to a few important members of my family. To be honest, though, I think these certain family members are disappointed with my sisters, too.
I'm the one they hate the most, however, and even though I've finally graduated, they keep asking me when I'm going to graduate, what the hell I'm doing with my life, etc. etc. They do this at family functions, sometimes in public places, and it absolutely infuriates and humiliates me. They don't know about my SA or my past depression issues, but I don't think things would be any better if they did.