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Old 11-04-2009, 07:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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I don't understand why people have to act happy, or be happy, when they aren't. This boggles me so much, I don't get it. I don't get why this is such a big deal. It's like if someone isn't smiling, people consider that not happy. But on the other hand, people who are always smiling, aren't always happy. Then people always gotta ask questions...

But on a positive note, if somebody does ask you, 'whats wrong?' At least that person does show some intent of caring, which is fine, if asking me, not that it might not piss me off at that moment. I realize it's human nature to be curiuos, and people ask questions. This I understand, but when people ask the same ****, every day, do these people got sense? Or do they get some type of pleasure out of annoying other human beings? It makes me start questioning if I'm really the one with the problem...

I know I have problems, that we have problems, and so does every body else. But distinguishing a fine line between negitive, and positive enviornments is something that we have to do. From the movie The Great Debaters, we have to do what we need to do, to do what we want to do...

All this drug bull ****. If someone wants to believe that they need drugs in their body to live a life, they can believe that. But the underlying truth is, nobody would believe they were ****ed up in the head, if someone didn't tell them that, if a doctor didn't tell somebody, you need pills. If we had strong, headstrong, persistent, active, encouraging, positive, helpful human beings in our life, anything would be possible...

But we live in a world now, where these doctors are coming up with perscriptions for anything. Everybody wants to run away from themself. I'm not saying that I don't think suicidle, crazy **** all the time, because I do. But that's just me right now. But these doctors try to come up with a disease for anything, talking about restless leg syndrom? Because your leg jumps you need a pill? I just don't buy it. I'm a human being, we are human beings. What does another human being know, that we don't? That we can't learn? Who thought it was a good idea to put a drug in their body to change themselves because they can't stand themselves? Because they're depressed. What isn't human about being depressed? What isn't human about feeling anxiety?

If people are sick in the head, people are sick in the head. If somebody who works at the morgue wants to have sex with the dead bodies, that's their nasty *** problem. All that person needs, is an *** whoopin, that can literally do wonders for some people...

But we as people, we have the ability to put positive recreations, in our lives. We have a whole lot of information to look at, and you can't believe everything that is in the news. Nobody can hate us more than we can hate ourselves. If you hate where your at right now, you can take a step forward, you do not have to stand where you're at. I believe there is too much negetivity in this world, and there isn't enough people to give you a good, honest pick-me-up...

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"Maladaptive coping involves finding ways to "deal" with your social anxiety without solving the problem: you might avoid all potentially embarrassing social situations; you might medicate yourself with drugs or alcohol when facing a social situation is unavoidable [...] In the long run, such strategies feed your anxiety and keep your fear of disapproval alive."

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