If some mature woman says to you " aren`t you scared to be without a man" then she shouldn`t be in relationship in the first place, relying on someone to heavily in a relationship is pretty unfair, i`ve been single most of my life because i don`t think its fair me bringing my deeply personal issues into a relationship, besides when i have tryed on a couple of occasions to try out a close friendship it hasn`t worked, the last one i tryed was about 18 months ago and it crashed `n` burned coz i couldn`t, ahem..."perform" (coz of depression etc.) so she ended up telling everyone that i was gay, cheers!!
"You've done a man's job, sir! I guess you're through, huh?" Gaff