Social Anxiety Support

Snaefridhur · 07-30-2007, 09:43 AM

good morning

I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly
20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same
age?

When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going
together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not
only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime.

It is amazing. Not funny either.

good bye

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Snaefridhur

good morning

I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly
20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same
age?

When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going
together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not
only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime.

It is amazing. Not funny either.

good bye

I'm 24 years old, and I've never kissed anyone. Have a good day.

thekloWN · 07-30-2007, 10:18 AM

At this rate, in 7 years I can say the same. Lol.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 10:30 AM

Ehhhh, it's not a big deal to me. I actually don't even have a desire to be in a romantic relationship anymore. This might change in the future, but it's just not on my mind for some reason.

I guess I've just got more important things to think about at this point than swapping spit.

User · 07-30-2007, 10:53 AM

I'm 20 and have never kissed a girl.

Not sure about what the average ages are for first kisses. I think it's 14 for girls, maybe 16 for boys. I'd say early to mid teens for most people. Not that any of this matters for us--it's something that I don't think about anymore.

Cerberus · 07-30-2007, 10:54 AM

I think most people start swapping spit between ages 12-15. I don't think anyone goes to discos anymore. That is so out right now.

Lonelyguy · 07-30-2007, 10:55 AM

I've never kissed or even touched a woman other than shaking hands at formal events. Never even been hugged.

I'm so shy around women I can barely manage eye contact with them.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 11:04 AM

I've been hugged, but I've never initiated. I think I've only been hugged by one girl. Then again, I slept with her a few times as well (no hanky panky though).

Still, it's odd to think that I've slept with a girl three times, but I've never kissed one yet.

GaSS PaNiCC · 07-30-2007, 11:29 AM

lol welcome to the party. id say about 90 percent of us have never kissed a girl before. im fckin 20 and this has got to change

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 11:34 AM

Actually, I hugged the girl I went out with Friday (ran into her an earlier night, when I had "liquid courage" clouding my thoughts at the time).

GaSS PaNiCC · 07-30-2007, 11:52 AM

^^^^^^we got serrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrved

will666 · 07-30-2007, 11:54 AM

a normal person starts usually around 13 - 14 , ive only done some kissing, and cuddling but thats about to change, i would hate to get to 30 the same way.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 11:57 AM

ACTUALLY... A girl kissed me on the lips once... but it was in kindergarten. Does that still count??

Derekgnr · 07-30-2007, 12:01 PM

I've never kissed and I'm almost 34.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by GaSS PaNiCC

^^^^^^we got serrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrved

FreeSoul · 07-30-2007, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Snaefridhur

good morning

I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly
20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same
age?

When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going
together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not
only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime.

It is amazing. Not funny either.

good bye

I can give you a silver membership in the "Never been Kissed" club for those who are beyond high school.

I myself have a Gold membership for being beyond college age.

Platinum memberships are only for those over 65 who still have not been kissed.

There are no perks to this club, sorry.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by FreeSoul

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Originally Posted by Snaefridhur

good morning

I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly
20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same
age?

When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going
together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not
only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime.

It is amazing. Not funny either.

good bye

I can give you a silver membership in the "Never been Kissed" club for those who are beyond high school.

I myself have a Gold membership for being beyond college age.

Platinum memberships are only for those over 65 who still have not been kissed.

There are no perks to this club, sorry.

Can I have a gold membership, or does the kindergarten event cancel me out??

FreeSoul · 07-30-2007, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ardrum

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Originally Posted by FreeSoul

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Originally Posted by Snaefridhur

good morning

I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly
20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same
age?

When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going
together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not
only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime.

It is amazing. Not funny either.

good bye

I can give you a silver membership in the "Never been Kissed" club for those who are beyond high school.

I myself have a Gold membership for being beyond college age.

Platinum memberships are only for those over 65 who still have not been kissed.

There are no perks to this club, sorry.

Can I have a gold membership, or does the kindergarten event cancel me out??

It might. Was it a serious kiss? Otherwise you'd get a silver for being in the 18-25 college age bracket.

EMACHINES · 07-30-2007, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ardrum

ACTUALLY... A girl kissed me on the lips once... but it was in kindergarten. Does that still count??

Me too.

ardrum · 07-30-2007, 01:24 PM

I don't know if it was serious or not, lol. I remember thinking she was pretty hot, or at least what a six-year-old would think of as hot. I didn't initiate it though, and there was no tongue. Those were the wildest times in my love life!

07-30-2007, 09:43 AM	#1 (permalink)
Snaefridhur Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Baltic sea area Posts: 129	I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. good morning I have never kissed anyone - as normal teens kiss - although I am nearly 20 years old. Any total "non-kisser" older than me or at least in the same age? When do the normal teens kiss first time? When do they start going together with a gf/bf? When do they start going to the real discos (not only school discos)? I do not talk with my peers on this theme, anytime. It is amazing. Not funny either. good bye __________________ http://www.avoidantpersonality.com/pinguine.htm That on left is me.

07-30-2007, 10:18 AM	#3 (permalink)
thekloWN Status: SAS Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: New York Age: 19 Posts: 102	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. At this rate, in 7 years I can say the same. Lol.

07-30-2007, 10:30 AM	#4 (permalink)
ardrum Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Age: 26 Posts: 9,097	Ehhhh, it's not a big deal to me. I actually don't even have a desire to be in a romantic relationship anymore. This might change in the future, but it's just not on my mind for some reason. I guess I've just got more important things to think about at this point than swapping spit. __________________ I'm just a little person One person in a sea Of many little people Who are not aware of me

07-30-2007, 10:53 AM	#5 (permalink)
User Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 859	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. I'm 20 and have never kissed a girl. Not sure about what the average ages are for first kisses. I think it's 14 for girls, maybe 16 for boys. I'd say early to mid teens for most people. Not that any of this matters for us--it's something that I don't think about anymore.

07-30-2007, 10:54 AM	#6 (permalink)
Cerberus Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Utah Posts: 5,721	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. I think most people start swapping spit between ages 12-15. I don't think anyone goes to discos anymore. That is so out right now. __________________ "Through the valleys grey Through the shapeless land I walk alone I'm left alone Through the deepest void, a blackened paradise I walk alone, I'm left alone"

07-30-2007, 10:55 AM	#7 (permalink)
Lonelyguy Status: Illegal in most areas Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Iowa Posts: 4,728	I've never kissed or even touched a woman other than shaking hands at formal events. Never even been hugged. I'm so shy around women I can barely manage eye contact with them. __________________ —"To me, there's nothing freer than a bird, you know, just flying wherever he wants to go. And, I don't know, that's what this country is all about, being free. I think everyone wants to be a free bird." ~ Ronnie Van Zant

07-30-2007, 11:04 AM	#8 (permalink)
ardrum Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Age: 26 Posts: 9,097	I've been hugged, but I've never initiated. I think I've only been hugged by one girl. Then again, I slept with her a few times as well (no hanky panky though). Still, it's odd to think that I've slept with a girl three times, but I've never kissed one yet. __________________ I'm just a little person One person in a sea Of many little people Who are not aware of me

07-30-2007, 11:29 AM	#9 (permalink)
GaSS PaNiCC Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 246	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. lol welcome to the party. id say about 90 percent of us have never kissed a girl before. im fckin 20 and this has got to change

07-30-2007, 11:34 AM	#10 (permalink)
ardrum Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Age: 26 Posts: 9,097	Actually, I hugged the girl I went out with Friday (ran into her an earlier night, when I had "liquid courage" clouding my thoughts at the time). __________________ I'm just a little person One person in a sea Of many little people Who are not aware of me

07-30-2007, 11:52 AM	#11 (permalink)
GaSS PaNiCC Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 246	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. ^^^^^^we got serrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrved

07-30-2007, 11:54 AM	#12 (permalink)
will666 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 134	a normal person starts usually around 13 - 14 , ive only done some kissing, and cuddling but thats about to change, i would hate to get to 30 the same way.

07-30-2007, 11:57 AM	#13 (permalink)
ardrum Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Age: 26 Posts: 9,097	ACTUALLY... A girl kissed me on the lips once... but it was in kindergarten. Does that still count?? __________________ I'm just a little person One person in a sea Of many little people Who are not aware of me

07-30-2007, 12:01 PM	#14 (permalink)
Derekgnr Status: SAS Member since 6/2/01 Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Massachusetts Gender: Male Age: 36 Posts: 742	re: I have never kissed! I am a teen, nearly 20. I've never kissed and I'm almost 34. __________________ Hear footsteps creak the floor The shadows give away Someone outside the door Won't let 'em in

07-30-2007, 01:24 PM	#20 (permalink)
ardrum Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Age: 26 Posts: 9,097	I don't know if it was serious or not, lol. I remember thinking she was pretty hot, or at least what a six-year-old would think of as hot. I didn't initiate it though, and there was no tongue. Those were the wildest times in my love life! __________________ I'm just a little person One person in a sea Of many little people Who are not aware of me