It bothers me when I see documented womanizers on Facebook partying it up, with a beer in one hand and an angry, obscene smirk in the other hand. Especially, when two of them are together and teaming up, like yeah we are both drunk *******s!
It bothers me when people compete socially, in fact it's repugnant.
As I become more enlightened the further I want to get away from social media.
Even when you try to get away from it, it haunts you.
I find it ironic that sad and angry people try to look happy on it. And, lonely insecure people try to look like they have a lot of friends and are secure.
When a person becomes centered, these forms of social measurement no longer matter, and yet... It is still disturbing to watch grown men and women compete with each other. Something is clearly wrong with it. It is ALL about the ego.
I find these sites so offensive that I have to avoid them altogether. I for one know my friend who looks so happy can't sleep and takes Prozac everyday.
None of them are truly happy. Happy people would not feel the need to compete.
And people get married, have babies and have more babies just to keep up with the Jones's.
Best advice, get centered, follow your heart only. Competing is a waste of energy.
Let them be who they are.
Love yourself fully for being who you are.