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Old 09-22-2009, 08:07 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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im just wondering if anyone has done this in their lives, just left it all behind and started new somewhere else? id like to do that one day, but it seems a little daunting.
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i would love to do that one day,it would be kinda scary though im not ganna lie..
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No but I want to.
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Yeah, but I had somebody to stay with each time or money/credit saved up first. It's pretty expensive, and moving all your stuff is a lot more work then it seems at first.

Also, I'm right back where I started now just because a medical accident threw my budget so out of line that I went bankrupt.

Definitely something that you should plan out carefully, especially in this economy.
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Thought about it a few times recently. But I do have some friends here and the thought of being 3000 miles away from them scares me. I don't make friends easily so that is kinda turning me off a bit.
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Yes. But I chickened out and moved back home.
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Yeah, left ny one day and drove to california not knowing a single person. That was ~15 years ago.
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Old 09-22-2009, 08:55 PM   #8 (permalink)
 
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wow cool.

I have been using this as an escape recently, wondering where else I could live for less money, like Mexico? Alaska?

I did move about 100 miles away from where I grew up, and so have been (really painfully) on my own. I am still working on building a life for myself here, and there's not really a home for me to go back to anywhere else.

In 12 step Recovery they call moving to another place to get away from problems "pulling a geographic." In this case it doesn't work, because "wherever you go, there you are!"

But I once heard someone say that there's nice people everywhere.
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I'm going to move from cali to vegas soon and now that you bring it up... yeah it's going to be tough making friends there.
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I just recently moved to the Netherlands from the Caribbean for school. I didn't have any other choice (that I could afford, at least). It's a long story. Anyway, I too want to run as far away as possible and start completely new. I have everything planned out. The only thing standing in my way is the money! Ugh. If only I win the lottery...
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there are people who can do this for you...
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no..but I would love to..move to a totally different country and start new...new people, new envrionment, new everything....and forget all that has happened here..
that would be great...alas, my time will come.
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there are people who can do this for you...
Help me win the lottery? Yes, please!
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/7512487.stm

Sorta like this..
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Ha! Great read though. Thanks.
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wow cool.

I have been using this as an escape recently, wondering where else I could live for less money, like Mexico? Alaska?

I did move about 100 miles away from where I grew up, and so have been (really painfully) on my own. I am still working on building a life for myself here, and there's not really a home for me to go back to anywhere else.

In 12 step Recovery they call moving to another place to get away from problems "pulling a geographic." In this case it doesn't work, because "wherever you go, there you are!"

But I once heard someone say that there's nice people everywhere.

I took a realy long ego trip recently and didnt find many nice people, but then maybe I wasnt' looking in the right places. I just kept moving, and finally I'm stuck at my Dad's place untill I can find a new job to get somewhere with. Starting over sure makes it harder when you are afraid of your own (social) shadow.
Good luck in your new life.
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I'd love to travel, and it would be pretty exciting, but my problems will follow me wherever I go, so what's the point? There really wouldn't be any "starting over" for me just by moving.
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wow cool.

I have been using this as an escape recently, wondering where else I could live for less money, like Mexico? Alaska?

I did move about 100 miles away from where I grew up, and so have been (really painfully) on my own. I am still working on building a life for myself here, and there's not really a home for me to go back to anywhere else.

In 12 step Recovery they call moving to another place to get away from problems "pulling a geographic." In this case it doesn't work, because "wherever you go, there you are!"

But I once heard someone say that there's nice people everywhere.
Plus, no matter where you go, there you are.
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i was kind of wondering about this too. I'm in some sort of dilemna wanting to move away but not having enough courage to do so. Also i would be away from most of my family and close friends and in turn be more alone and probably isolated than ever.
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