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toffee · 11-06-2009, 01:18 PM

I have a weakness for sad, mellow songs, like....

gary jules - madworld
stone sour - bother
elliott smith - miss misery
nine inch nails - something i can never have
sum 41 - pieces
seether - the gift
nick drake - day is done

.. that kinda thing.
anyone know any others?

Pam · 11-06-2009, 01:31 PM

I don't know who sings this, and it's not what I'd call mellow--rather it's loud and sounds good loud, but here are some of the words:

I put my trust in you
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
But there's something you should know---

I tried so hard
and got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

This song is depressing but I actually feel good when I listen to it.

shadowmask · 11-06-2009, 01:35 PM

rincewind · 11-06-2009, 01:37 PM

The Verve - The Drugs Don't Work
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4XCGeckA-E

mrmaticus · 11-06-2009, 01:38 PM

Here's a few songs you could look up...

"Lucy" by Skillet
"Hold my Heart (Part1) by Letter Kills
"36 Days" by Hawk Nelson

Mello · 11-06-2009, 01:43 PM

Pilate-alright
One republic-come home
Patrick watson-the great escape
Goo goo dolls-iris
James morrison-wonderfull world
Clint mansell-memories(piano)
Theme of tears(piano)
The fray-how to save a life
Snow patrol-chasing cars

Colorblind · 11-06-2009, 01:50 PM

anything by Say Anything. Max Bemis is bipolar and has SA and it's super easy to relate to what he's writing (at least for me). Amazing dude.

jellybelly · 11-06-2009, 01:50 PM

Oh I have the same weakness!

My favourites are :

My Skin
Effigy - both by Natalie Merchant
Nicest Thing - Kate Nash
Iris - Goo Goo dolls

Not sure if they're properly depressing but I like 'em.

Dying note · 11-06-2009, 01:55 PM

"Like You" and "Missing" by Evanescence, two of my favorite songs.

coldmorning · 11-06-2009, 02:02 PM

Magnetic Fields - The dreaming moon

Great. · 11-06-2009, 02:07 PM

This probably isn't quite in line with your taste but it is so good and sad....I could listen to it all day. Une comptine d'un autre ete l'apres midi

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Z2lj...eature=related

bowlingpins · 11-06-2009, 02:09 PM

Hero of War - Rise Against

Cerberus · 11-06-2009, 02:15 PM

Just about anything from Sentenced. They're a bit too melodramatic for me sometimes (almost to the point of self satire), but they have good songs if you're really depressed or sad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8ulTo4s3So

MPS · 11-06-2009, 02:38 PM

ShyViolet · 11-06-2009, 02:49 PM

Jnmcda0 · 11-06-2009, 03:01 PM

"Nutshell" - Alice in Chains
"Wish You Were Here" - Pink Floyd
"Ten Years Gone" - Led Zeppelin
"Tea For One" - Led Zeppelin
"Lightning Crashes" - Live
"Dust In the Wind" - Kansas
"Desperado" - The Eagles
"Take It To the Limit" - The Eagles
"Under the Bridge" - Red Hot Chili Peppers
"Time After Time" - Cyndi Lauper
"Where Are You Now" - Jimmy Harnen and Synch
"What Might Have Been" - Little Texas

illlaymedown · 11-06-2009, 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pam

I don't know who sings this, and it's not what I'd call mellow--rather it's loud and sounds good loud, but here are some of the words:

I put my trust in you
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
But there's something you should know---

I tried so hard
and got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter

This song is depressing but I actually feel good when I listen to it.

It's called 'In the End' and it's by Linkin Park...actually my favorite song by them

Pretty much any Dashboard Confessional song can bring up some emotion out of me....also, Relient K. As far as individual songs:
Morning Calls, Screaming Infidelities, Rapid Hope Loss, So Long So Long etc by DC
Missing, Hello, My Immortal, Good Enough, Like You etc by Evanescence
Blue and Yellow-The Used
Yours To Hold-Skillet
Bother-Stone Sour
Only The Strong Survive-Flaw
Remember-Disturbed
and quite a few just musical pieces from some of my favorite games bring out my sad feelings

Blackhole105 · 11-06-2009, 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Colorblind

anything by Say Anything. Max Bemis is bipolar and has SA and it's super easy to relate to what he's writing (at least for me). Amazing dude.

Agreed.

Also, "The Golden Age" by Beck and most things from The Cure.

Paper Samurai · 11-06-2009, 03:04 PM

Melancholy Blues with a hint of optimism

Toad Licker · 11-06-2009, 03:05 PM

11-06-2009, 01:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
toffee Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: England Gender: Female Age: 17 Posts: 181	Good, depressing songs? I have a weakness for sad, mellow songs, like.... gary jules - madworld stone sour - bother elliott smith - miss misery nine inch nails - something i can never have sum 41 - pieces seether - the gift nick drake - day is done .. that kinda thing. anyone know any others? __________________ Everywhere i look, you're all i see.. just a fading ****ing reminder of who i used to be.

11-06-2009, 01:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Pam Status: Never Fitting In Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: western New York Gender: Female Age: 41 Posts: 234	I don't know who sings this, and it's not what I'd call mellow--rather it's loud and sounds good loud, but here are some of the words: I put my trust in you blah blah blah blah blah blah blah But there's something you should know--- I tried so hard and got so far But in the end It doesn't even matter This song is depressing but I actually feel good when I listen to it. __________________ I don't need anyone to approve of what I say or do...but it's always nice when someone does.

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shadowmask Status: Seeing stars Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: TN Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,085	__________________ Basically, I'm complicated I have a hard time taking the easy way I wouldn't call it schizophrenia But I'll be at least two people today

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rincewind Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Scotland, UK Gender: Male Age: 27 Posts: 291	The Verve - The Drugs Don't Work http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n4XCGeckA-E __________________ Per Ardua Ad Astra

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Great. Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: St Paul, MN Gender: Female Age: 22 Posts: 501	This probably isn't quite in line with your taste but it is so good and sad....I could listen to it all day. Une comptine d'un autre ete l'apres midi http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Z2lj...eature=related __________________ "Put your troubles away till tomorrow.... If you're lucky, someone will break into your house tonight and steal 'em!"

11-06-2009, 01:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
mrmaticus Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: N.S., Canada Gender: Male Posts: 6	Here's a few songs you could look up... "Lucy" by Skillet "Hold my Heart (Part1) by Letter Kills "36 Days" by Hawk Nelson

11-06-2009, 01:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
Mello Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Rotterdam Gender: Female Age: 18 Posts: 66	Pilate-alright One republic-come home Patrick watson-the great escape Goo goo dolls-iris James morrison-wonderfull world Clint mansell-memories(piano) Theme of tears(piano) The fray-how to save a life Snow patrol-chasing cars

11-06-2009, 01:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
Colorblind Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Age: 21 Posts: 11	anything by Say Anything. Max Bemis is bipolar and has SA and it's super easy to relate to what he's writing (at least for me). Amazing dude.

11-06-2009, 01:50 PM	#8 (permalink)
jellybelly Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: uk Gender: Female Posts: 270	Oh I have the same weakness! My favourites are : My Skin Effigy - both by Natalie Merchant Nicest Thing - Kate Nash Iris - Goo Goo dolls Not sure if they're properly depressing but I like 'em.

11-06-2009, 01:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
Dying note Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: U.S. Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 36	"Like You" and "Missing" by Evanescence, two of my favorite songs.

11-06-2009, 02:02 PM	#10 (permalink)
coldmorning Status: Add water and shake Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Northern California Gender: Male Posts: 2,125	Magnetic Fields - The dreaming moon

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bowlingpins Status: Temporarily Banned Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 557	Hero of War - Rise Against

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Cerberus Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Utah Posts: 5,721	Just about anything from Sentenced. They're a bit too melodramatic for me sometimes (almost to the point of self satire), but they have good songs if you're really depressed or sad. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8ulTo4s3So __________________ "Through the valleys grey Through the shapeless land I walk alone I'm left alone Through the deepest void, a blackened paradise I walk alone, I'm left alone"

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MPS Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: London, England Age: 29 Posts: 130	__________________ It's not like the movies, they fed us all little white lies.

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Toad Licker Status: Broken Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: A Fruitloop Daydream Gender: Male Age: 44 Posts: 29,638	__________________ All will wither, go to sleep The ones you love you may not keep All you touch will fall apart The dreams you kill will break your heart There's no mercy, there's no rest The void will scream within your chest No one knows and no one will So leave this place that makes you Ill - Madder Mortem

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Jnmcda0 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Florence, KY Posts: 2,103	"Nutshell" - Alice in Chains "Wish You Were Here" - Pink Floyd "Ten Years Gone" - Led Zeppelin "Tea For One" - Led Zeppelin "Lightning Crashes" - Live "Dust In the Wind" - Kansas "Desperado" - The Eagles "Take It To the Limit" - The Eagles "Under the Bridge" - Red Hot Chili Peppers "Time After Time" - Cyndi Lauper "Where Are You Now" - Jimmy Harnen and Synch "What Might Have Been" - Little Texas

11-06-2009, 03:04 PM	#19 (permalink)
Paper Samurai Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 127	Melancholy Blues with a hint of optimism __________________ Sweet is sleep to me and even more to be of stone, While the wrong and shame endure. To be without sight or sense is a most happy change for me, therefore do not rouse me. Hush! Speak low.