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Old 07-06-2009, 12:02 AM   #41 (permalink)
 
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Nah I'm still here lurking quietly in the shadows

We're probably going to hang out tuesday, depending on if I have to work or not. But thanks for the advice everyone, I was thinking about giving up until I read some of your responses.
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I texted one of them to see if she still wanted to hang out and she replied with "one day sure". Does that mean she doesn't really want to hang out with me anymore? I don't get girls sometimes
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Old 07-06-2009, 12:06 PM   #43 (permalink)
 
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i think you should be a little more enthusiastic about hanging out with her...like a specific day and something that you came up with to do so that way she isnt doign all the work
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I texted one of them to see if she still wanted to hang out and she replied with "one day sure". Does that mean she doesn't really want to hang out with me anymore? I don't get girls sometimes
Be specific. Date. Time. Place. Do not just say "wanna hang out?"
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One of them wants to spend time with her boyfriend tomorrow. Should I still see if the other one wants to hang out?
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One of them wants to spend time with her boyfriend tomorrow. Should I still see if the other one wants to hang out?
YES.

Also, do exactly what Just Lurking said. Be specific with a date, time and place.
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Old 07-06-2009, 04:16 PM   #47 (permalink)
 
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One of them wants to spend time with her boyfriend tomorrow. Should I still see if the other one wants to hang out?

was the other one who gave you the number? if not that is very strange, giving a guy your number when you already have a boyfriend...hmm
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