Heres an amazing realization I had when working on becoming more talkative, conversation is not a physical exchange of sounds and infromation, its an unconcious vibe shared between 2 or more people, basically conversation is not as much as the words, its about the vibe that goes on, to let it flow you gotta be dialed on the same vibe as the peopel who are talkign, you do not address conversation logically, for example with a group of friends who know eachother the vibe that is set is easily entered by any of those friends, with new people people tend to think its any different when its not.
I used to go into convo thinking itd be akward, WRONG, go in assumign rapport, the second you talk assumign people will talk back and be interested is the second youll put up a good vibe, people can FEEL this, lead and people will follow.
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