03-06-2007, 01:54 PM
Status: SAS Member
Join Date: Nov 2003
Re: Does anyone else not like to be touched?
I like being touched...but just like small talk touching is a form of signaling or showing affection to someone else and i don't feel i have the experience yet to show it back properly...i was pretty rough with generally talking to someone a few months back but i'm slowly picking it up and being able to express and connect with people (Sometimes).
I'm just not used to touchingl, I mean i get hugs from family members but since i've never really been in a close form relationship with someone its not something i'm used to...I need practice
I notice when doing things like taking pictures with family, people are pretty comfortable, they won't think twice about putting their arms around someone or getting cuddly with someone...me on the other hand I'm a nervous wreck
It makes me uncomfortable because I feel i need to show that back, there seems to be pressure i put on myself and maybe i interpret it all wrong...If i force myself to put my arm around someone or touch someone I feel awkward and i believe the other person can sense that I'm feeling quite uncomfortable.
cut and pasted from a post i made on frustration forums
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while you were busy taking notes
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take a risk just for yourself
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